What do you do to REALLY clear you're mind?? to be able to think things out sensibly, and rationally,as to not make a mistake? and than how do you know you're making the right choice? this would be on issues of the heart! because mine always rules.
2007-10-24 22:30:12 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
this is not a short term problem, it has been going on a long time now.so theres no cut and dry answer, I really, need to deep think this thing thru. and really need to know how. thanks.
2007-10-24 23:18:21 · update #1
When it comes to affairs of the heart, your mind can overtake, but then you will be rationalizing. Try making a list of why you want this person above all others , then make a list of qualities you want in someome special. See how the two lists compare, after all, it`s a lifetime committment you`re thinking of. If the person you want doesn`t measure up, then he won`t make a suitable match. I`ll bet that even if he fails the test you will keep him anyway. Thats how women are.
2007-10-25 03:11:51 · answer #1 · answered by jms043 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You know as well as I do that it is easier said than done, I have something going on in my life right now that I have no control over.
And the Main reason for that is my heart has the wheel, it is driven this mech. ( my body & mind) And if my mind was driving I don’t think I would change the way I’m heading.
Because we are still talking, and as long as we are talking their is hope, hope that my heart gets what it wants.And I will give all of me for that one shot at total happiest, this is how much she means to me.
2007-10-25 01:34:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Set out a block of time everyday in which you do not have to do anything. Use that time to do something fun or meaningful; read, watch a movie, play an instrument, exercise, or work on a hobby of yours. Let this be a time in which you can guarantee you will not have to think about anything else but enjoying yourself.
2016-05-25 18:41:32 · answer #3 · answered by aline 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK now this is a good question! I have to take time sometimes days to make important decisions. If I'm rushed into things I make mistakes every time so I guess my advice is take your time and don't get pressured into anything until your happy with your decision :)
2007-10-24 22:37:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
when i lived near the beach i really loved a walk by the sea.i loved to hear the rolling waves.It was so gentle and peaceful,now i like to lay on the floor with my dogs and just watch them,i wonder what they think..there world is so less complicated.my heart often rules,but there is logic too..cheers
2007-10-24 23:11:07 · answer #5 · answered by shrebee 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I go some place where I can have peace and quiet, and think hard on the matter. I don't know if it's the right choice choice, I just hope it is
2007-10-25 00:40:38 · answer #6 · answered by barbwire 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say take a nap. Wake up refreshed. Weigh out the pros and cons and follow your heart. Life is too short.
2007-10-25 03:30:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
On Paper divide in half ,write pros on one side Cons on the other then list all the pros then all the cons ,which ever side is longer is the decision.
2007-10-25 11:16:53 · answer #8 · answered by doug g 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i 1st clean up externally by washing my face feet then i change into something comfortable and quite then i brush my hair. while this process i don't think about my prob. i then close my eyes and think deeply of god. after i am done, the answer comes to by itself. as for knowing if its right, you'll know it, you'll feel that its right
2007-10-24 22:36:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow your heart and remember your first thoughts are usually right.
2007-10-25 04:28:50 · answer #10 · answered by mjfrog 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋