I never hurt any girl. never. I nevert hurt famaly members. than why god always hurt me? why?
2007-10-24 22:28:59 · 11 answers · asked by joy 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Mythology & Folklore
I would have to say it is because you still cling to the idea that your fate is in the hands of someone other than yourself.
2007-10-24 22:36:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I know what you mean. It got to the point I figured I had had enough pain. I hope you will listen to me so you don't have to keep feeling like you are in a whirlpool that keeps pulling you further and further down. First, call your doctor. If you don't have one, I didn't, go to a clinic. Tell someone you are in severe emotional pain and that you want to be prescribed medication for it. There are many kinds of antidepressants that-well, I used to fall apart over everything and anything-some horrible things happened, some not so horrible but they still felt that way. My brain chemicals didn't process feelings right-seemed to magnify sadness and pain, which sounds like maybe what you are going through, too. I am on Zoloft now, but have been on other things. If one isn't helping within a few weeks, and you will notice a difference, ask for something else. Ask as if your life depends on it, because it can make the difference between existing and really living. You will gain perspective, you will be calmer, and once you get there you won't feel so much like everything you do is wrong or God has a lightning bolt or taser with your name on it . It is not luck, it sounds like it is depression. Emotional pain can be as severe as physical pain, and doctors know it. It effects your physical health, too. It won't cost you a lot of money, either, if that is a problem. Call the local hospital and ask for the name of a doctor or clinic who will take you, and explain what the problem is. If you are in so much pain you just can't take it anymore, go to the emergency room. That is what they are there for, and you won't be the first one by any means. Not even the first one that day. Please try this. My life still isn't perfect, but I can cope with problems now, and I don't beat myself up anymore like I used to-which is what you sound like, too. I hope you go see a doctor ASAP. Don't keep waiting like I did-I wasted a lot of years and regret not getting medical assistance much sooner. I have been there.
2007-10-27 17:44:16 · answer #2 · answered by fordellcastle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"A Reason, a Season, or a Lifetime"
People come into your life for a reason, a season, or a lifetime.
When you figure out which one it is,
You will know what to do for each person.
When someone is in your life for a Reason . . .
It is usually to meet a need you have expressed.
They have come to assist you through a difficulty,
To provide you with guidance and support,
To aid you physically, emotionally, or spiritually.
They may seem like a godsend, and they are!
They are there for the reason you need them to be.
Then, without any wrong doing on your part, or at an inconvenient time,
This person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.
Sometimes they die.
Sometimes they walk away.
Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.
What we must realise is that our need has been met,
Our desire fulfilled, their work is done.
The prayer you sent up has been answered.
And now it is time to move on.
When people come into your life for a Season. . .
Because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn.
They bring you an experience of peace, or make you laugh.
They may teach you something you have never done.
They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.
Believe it! It is real! But, only for a season.
Lifetime relationships teach you lifetime lessons;
Things you must build upon in order
To have a solid emotional foundation.
Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person,
And put what you have learned
To use in all other relationships and areas of your life.
It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant.
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I hope you enjoyed the message today.
Just as everything happens for a reason,
Everyone is part of your life for a reason!
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Until later, Make it a Great Life!
Love & Blessings
Milly
2007-10-25 02:08:14 · answer #3 · answered by milly_1963 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am thinking with practice they can get better at sex. If he is finishing too quickly then tell him to slow the f down. It takes some practice to know how to do it well. All of these girls who say their man is great in bed, God knows how many girls they've practiced on...haha (and by the way what ever number he give you is a lie..haha). You know all the ladies always say relationship is about communication so then you need to communicate about sex. Tell him what you like and don't like. You can expect all dudes to come out and perform like a freaking porn star all the time. If he can't get it up then you need to help him out. You can't just be like I am ready get hard and if he can't then be like okay forget it. That's cheating yourself as well. I was watching Kat Williams and he was talking about stroke number. This is going to get a but graphic..haha A guy need to practice and kind of figure out how many stroke he can go before he finishes. Kat was saying it doesn't matter what your number is you can still have fun. If your number is 50 they ok go to 50 then you are done. Even if he is super quick and his number is 6 you can still have fun. He can pump to 5, slow then 5 more and keep that going for a while. 2 fast 2 slow 2 fast whatever....haha I told you it was going to be a little grpahic. If you are truly in love with this dude then I am hoping that you love him for something more his abilities in bed. So if you love him and is going to stay with him then practice with him. He'll get better and you both will be happier for it. Then you'll get it the way you want it and if he knows how to last you might get it like 5-6 times a day. Good Luck. Oh and that comment about the string of idiots to find one diamond. That theory works both ways. To our exes you (and I) are on their stands of idiots on their way to their diamond. =)
2016-05-25 18:41:27 · answer #4 · answered by aline 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are NOT an unlucky man. NOTHING goes wrong for you all the time. I always knew the Universe heard you before the famous book "The Secret" came out. It really is true that you can change your own fate by positive thinking. I never read the book I know that you're upset. Changing your attitude to be more positive will greatly increase your standing. Trust me.
2007-10-25 00:16:31 · answer #5 · answered by Wickwire 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't believe in luck. More in chance.
Are you perhaps creating situations which gives you no way out other than those which looks "bad"? If you are, you know what I am talking about.
If not, it could be molding you into the person you need to be. Events and people around us makes us the people we are. I believe we all have some kind of "role". Even if it is just to "mold" others, so they can take their "role" someday.
Just keep the faith friend. Think positive. Feel untouchable. I dare you!
2007-10-25 04:33:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess it's connected with your ideas.
Sorry, if i offended you.
A person that is not successful reasons everyone except himself when a mistake happens, even God is pointed at.
Just be optimistic and think that you are very lucky and if ever mistakes happen again or ,as you say, your unluckiness occurs then be optimistic.
2007-10-24 22:32:36 · answer #7 · answered by makerzZz........** 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps because you expect things to go wrong? Try to be nice to at least 1 person every day. Instead of just not hurting others, surprise them, show them you care. Smile even when it's not easy.
2007-10-24 22:48:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Someone once taught me a way of thinking they learned from a book. It is called "manifesting your destiny". It is about thinking positive. If you think of positive things and goals you would like to achieve, they are more readily obtainable. Keep negative thoughts to minimum, believe in yourself and put yourself in situations that are beneficial to yourself. Anything is obtainable to the person who knows these things are obtainable. Good luck and manifest your destiny!!
2007-10-24 22:42:27 · answer #9 · answered by greateststory 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you've come to think that a few bad experinces means everything goes wrong for you. I'd say that if you develop your self confidence a bit then things will start to turn around for you.
2007-10-25 00:32:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋