not by finacial but some thing other will make us happy
2007-10-24 22:27:57 · 17 answers · asked by rajan r 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Spend some quality time together and not stress out or answer the phone. pretend you are jsut stranded somewhere beautiful
2007-10-24 22:33:01 · answer #1 · answered by AMP 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everything in this world comes with strings attached.
If you buy a good cloth, you are happy with the cloth, but also a bit sad because of the money you paid.
There is no true happiness (like we are made to believe by convention) - but then again every moment is a happy moment if we can learn to accept what life gives us.
If you have a certain degree of realization about the fact that you may never walk the path of "life" again and this is your only chance to be happy - you will find ways to remain happy in spite of all adversity. Happiness is the outcome of the small decisions that we make every moment of our lives.
Another way to look at it is from the viewpoint of how wise we are. Wisdom brings sadness because you start realising there is absolutely no logic in how life treats people. Therefore, the more ignorant we are - the happier we are.
If a frog is placed in a container of water and the water is heated, the frog, which is ignorant to the heat will remain happy with the water, till the temperature for it's death has come - and it will die a sudden death.
2007-10-24 23:04:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Happiness is based on outer circumstances. Joy and contentment come from being in a right relationship with God first. I had an affair when I was 20 and had been married only two years. My husband forgave me and never mentioned it again. After 41 yr. of marriage he confessed a recent 5 yr. affair. I know what it is to be forgiven by God and my husband. It enables me to be forgiving. That doesn't mean there isn't a lot of pain involved, but with God's help I can come out stronger. Romans 8:28 says All things work together for good to those who love the Lord and are called according to his purposes. The OW has two divorces to her credit and an affair that went nowhere. She refuses to forgive. I have compassion for her. She will carry all that pain into the next relationship. Annie J
2007-10-25 00:21:39 · answer #3 · answered by Annie J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Set some couple goals together and develop a plan to achieve them. Develop a list of the things that you like to do together and make sure to do them.
It is also important that when you leave work, you actually leave work. Make sure that you always create time for the two of you each evening.
Take short (day long) trips that are not overwhelmingly expensive. You can create a series of mini vacations instead of one or two expensive getaways.
The important thing to remember is that the focus should be each other.
2007-10-24 22:58:43 · answer #4 · answered by Just an opinion 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on what u call happy...???
Don't argue,, make sacrifices.., take walks in the park, or around the block..
and share time telling each other about Ur day..,
light candles,
and put on some music, and just sit together.. cuddling ..
it is not hard to be happy if u love each other and do not allow problems of the world to effect Ur marriage..
2007-10-24 22:46:58 · answer #5 · answered by ♥ Blondie ♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NOTHING makes people happy. Happiness comes from inside a person, not from things around them, or from other people. Certainly, bad things happen, and I'm not suggesting that anybody will live a life that is one constant joy ride, but happy people are happy, cuz they're happy people. They've chosen that, and so they are. Just as unhappy people will be unhappy, no matter what happens.
2007-10-24 23:59:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
1. give up everything, go to the himalayas and meditate on god.
2. dont give a damn about what others say.
3. be satisfied with what you have and make the best use of it.
4. enjoy what ever fun / pleasure activity comes your way.
5. take time off and do things that make you happy.
2007-10-25 12:00:28 · answer #7 · answered by Pramod R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Always bear in mind that happiness is not a destiny but a CHOICE. If you choose to be happy in an unhappy situation or sorroundings or world for that matter, you'd be happy no matter what...A simple "thank you" from a beggar whom you have given a single cent or a piece of bread would make you happy if you just appreaciate it...(",)
2007-10-24 23:01:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are right financial part is not important but you must take care for your self a lot
respect your self if you want to be respected
travel go on holidays spend time with the ones you love and especially with the family
think positive this is very important and do not let bad thinks get over you
try to smile this is very benefic
and do exactly what you feel forget about the rest let your self be free
2007-10-24 22:36:38 · answer #9 · answered by Helena 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is not hard to be happy,if you love each other
be honest and let the person know every things about you and vice versa ,i mean both presents and past life .
somer people like kepping thier past life from their spouse which use to cause a lot of avoc in some family.be prayerful and always create time for leisure and don't allow problem or things of the world to affect your marriage . always be a positive thinking person
2007-10-24 23:14:16 · answer #10 · answered by Temmydelly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋