Whose sick of the quesions "am i Gay??"
whats worse is many of those are asking things like. i can dance so am i gay; i can cook so am i gay; is liking a particular band gay.
Don't you realise that Gay is the attraction of one person to the same gender. nothing to do with what you do, what hobbies you have and what you sound like.
Does anyone aggree?
2007-10-24 19:54:37 · 29 answers · asked by Paul E 5 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
ok johnny B you have a point.
although most of the questions are referring to homosexuality
2007-10-24 20:44:43 · update #1
By all those standards my bf is gay. He like shopping dance music and tons of other things that would make people say that about him. But he screws the **** outta me. So we both know he's not!
2007-10-24 19:58:55 · answer #1 · answered by kayley_bug 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree, gender and orientation issues get conflated in the minds of people who don't know any better, but I still answer these sorts of questions as best as I can because ignorance
still bugs me more than silly questions. Plus as an hormonally Intersexed Drag-Queen, I'm in a position to speak to both and explain the differences. So I speak to college groups regularly on issues such as these and stress that the people in the LGBT communities are very diverse, as a way of combating such over-generalizations.
2007-10-25 03:26:38 · answer #2 · answered by Testika Filch Milquetoast 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with you completely. I don't know how many different ways it can be posted or answered. I mean enough is enough. You know what being homosexual meant before you came here and asked it. I don't think the outcome is any different.
It is like you are hoping that you will come to a place that will tell you something different from what you already know. If that is the case just tell someone to lie to you or better yet continue to lie to yourself.
I think if you don't want to be seen as gay, then don't limit yourself to titles. Do you and be happy dammit.
2007-10-25 02:59:39 · answer #3 · answered by sumptinsweet4u 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The kind of gay you are talking about is the popularizing of the term gay.
Gay has gone from meaning homosexuality to ANY thing that is different from the norm.
2007-10-25 02:59:01 · answer #4 · answered by slevin057 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't even read them anymore. They are so boring. It's true that the people may be genuinely questioning their sexuality but I honestly am sick to death of explaining that they are the only people that know for sure if they're gay or bi.
2007-10-25 04:33:54 · answer #5 · answered by Legs 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Completely!
2007-10-25 02:56:50 · answer #6 · answered by Logan and Ella's Mommy 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
So your argument is that being gay is on a mental/emotional level and doesn't have to do with one's action.
Eh...but I think it does have to do with what you do.
What about soliciting sex in an airport bathroom with the same sex? Don't you think that's a "gay" behavior?
But then, I understand your point of view. Some feminine/sensitive guys will definitely agree with you.
2007-10-25 03:05:31 · answer #7 · answered by Chaos 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I was sick of it the first time I read one. How could a person not know their own sexuality?
2007-10-25 02:58:36 · answer #8 · answered by word 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's best to be a Gay,you could sexual with men and ladies,wasn't matter what people have said ,I could be able to cook,washing clothes,go to SPA for skincares and body massage,etc.why not.
2007-10-25 03:15:49 · answer #9 · answered by victor98_2001 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree.
Queer means attraction towards the same sex, NOT what you like that boys would NOT like.
You know wat that is just stupid, just cuz u like dancing, you gay? that does NOT make any sense. People have the wrong idea of homosexuality
2007-10-25 10:02:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋