i told my boyfriend that i haven't got my period and he told me if i think im preg i said i don't thinkso cause i havent come out preg for the past 3 yrs and he got really upset and told me that were not ready that how many times he had told me to take care to not come out preg cause he wants to get married well we want to for next yr that all the plans that we had.. and that im to young and i just stayed quiet!!!what should i tell him ?that if im preg and when the baby is born he is going to regret it or what cause i know im young and i know it's respons...i will get so happy if im preg no matter were not married and live with parents.. he asked me today if i feel like im getting my period i said no and i told him don't be mad and he said hes really stressed need help thanx he doesn't want a baby know"
2007-10-24 19:44:38 · 8 answers · asked by Crystal A 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
it both your responsibility. you both choose to have sex. you should "both" accept the consequences of your actions. don't blame yourself alone. eitherway ask his financial support. YOUR CHOICE YOUR REWARD YOUR FAULT
2007-10-24 19:49:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
The only way to know for sure is to take a pregnancy test. I would suggest you do that ASAP. Then if it turns up positive, you have a lot of options avalible to you, that you two should discuss at length. You may even want to involve your parents. Like I said you now have several options to you, keep the baby, abortion, and adoption. I can't tell you what choice is right for you, only you can make that decision. However, don't let anyone, not even your boyfriend, make you do something that you do not want to do. Make sure that you do whatever you do for you, not to make anyone else happy. You will have to live with your decision forever, so make sure that you are comfortable with it.
When I was in high school I became pregnant. I knew that keeping the baby wasn't an option for me. It wouldn't have been a good life for me or my baby. I didn't want to have an abortion either. I'm prochoice, I just didn't feel as though it was right for me. So I decided on adoption. It's nothing like it use to be. I got to hand select the adoptive parents and they were in the delivery room with me. We still keep in touch, and it's a great relationship. This is what's called an open adoption. There is also a closed adoption where you can still pick the parents but you don't keep in touch.
I'm not telling you what to do. I just want to make sure that you are completely informed about everything,.
Good Luck!
2007-10-25 03:47:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well has he ever heard of condoms? Those things really are lifesavers.. literally. If you keep having unprotected sex you will eventually get pregnant.( Given you are able to reproduce) Do yourself a favor, buy a pregnancy test( or go to a free clinic) If you're not pregnant, consider yourself extremely fortunate and get on birth control. Trust me, a kid before you're ready will put tons of stress on your relationship. People have to be ready for a baby. Your boyfriend clearly is not. He has even made you aware of this. Don't be selfish, get on birth control and use condoms.
2007-10-25 03:10:17 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Only a FOOL would not realise that if you play with fire you will get burned. Don't start complaining now, you both should have taken steps to eliminate the chance of an unwanted bun in the oven.
2007-10-25 02:58:04 · answer #4 · answered by daboss 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well it sounds to me like he isnt ready, which is fair as raising a child is A LOT of responsibility. He also realizes that you are both too young.
Its too bad you arent realizing that.
2007-10-25 02:50:28 · answer #5 · answered by Paramedic Girl 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Get a pregnancy test.
There could be many other reasons why you do not have your period yet.
2007-10-25 10:51:48 · answer #6 · answered by Terri 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
can you at least learn to write coherent english before your baby comes? if you don't know how to form a complete sentence, how is your baby supposed to learn?
2007-10-25 03:09:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Congratulations, you are about to experience one of the...no THE best thing in life. Babies are magical.
2007-10-25 02:55:57 · answer #8 · answered by Johnny 7 · 1⤊ 4⤋