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I have been in a serious relationship for about 3 months and I love her with all my heart. I have been trying to balance time with her and time with my friends and it seems like when i spend more time with the other, the opposite gets upset. I have been sick for about a week and we havent been able to see eachother as much as we normally do. I have alot of health tests and things coming up and she is my support, but lately i feel as though she thinks i am ignoring her, but i am not trying to. She means the world to me and has told me she would only ever dump me if I cheated. Am i just too paranoid or is there something i can do to help her not feel neglected? i stride on being a good boyfriend and i have told her i would do whatever it takes for her.

2007-10-24 19:38:51 · 6 answers · asked by amshamah 3 in Family & Relationships Other - Family & Relationships

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If she does not already know your friends then you need to include her a few time . So, she will know your friends.If you think she is the one then you both need to know each others friends.It does not sound like you are going out to much with your friends from your question ..So,if it is her getting upset maybe you need to think this relationship out a little more..
Each of you need time a way from the other one. She should not feel neglected unless you are neglecting her. A boyfriend or husband is not suppose to be her entertainment 24/7 Honest a good boyfriend should be able to go out with his friends.

2007-10-24 20:06:15 · answer #1 · answered by abuelamah 6 · 0 0

if she hasn't told you what she wants yet then shes not stable for a relationship or theres more to it then just neglect


try: when you do something make sure you ask her if she wants to go and if she says no ask her whats shes doing then if she has plans then do your plans and she can do hers
but if shes free and doesn't go with you then maybe your place would be best with her

be with her all the time then she'll get sick of it and miss the freedom just enough to tell you whats what and not dump you

hopefully i helped
good luck
go at this situation and think everything out throughly
of you don't you'll end up doing something you don't want to do
<3

2007-10-25 02:45:56 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0 0

If you;ve been in a relationship for 3 months... it hasn't been too long. Your friends have been there for years, but it sounds like their insecurity issues are as bad as your girls. You shouldn't be feeling bad about neglecting wither when you're sick! You shouldn't fell bad at all! I know how hard it is to be in a relationship and still have a normal life with yoru friends, it's a give and take relationship... on both parts! it sounds like you just give and the others only take. I know this wasn't in your question, but you really need to sit them all down together and tell them - hey, I love all of you, but you're all making me feel bad cuz I can't be with all fo you 24/7. I'm sorry, but I can't be all the time and you need to understand.- You need your own time too hun.

I hope your feelin better soon. I'm sure you love each other, but you have your whole life to love her, and the other way around. It's the best part of the relationship... getting to know each other and getting past those hurdles (such as being sick and unable to see each other)- will make you guys SO much stronger! Just love and slow it down, and don't be feeling bad about nothing. Just consentrate on gettin better.

Besides... you're the one who is sick. Your girl should be right there taking care of you... if it's really love. She shouldn't care about getting sick, just making you feel better. You SO don't need to be feelign abd about not seeing her... she needs to be taking care of you and worrying herself about seeing you.

2007-10-25 02:47:55 · answer #3 · answered by talonz_lady02 3 · 0 0

Your relationship with your gf should be getting the most of your time if you are in love with her. If you are ill, just call her and explain what you have been doing, and apologize for not being able to see her as much. Reassure he that you have been missing her too. If she cares about you, she will understand.

Only plan to go out with your friends on occasion. If they are your real buddies, they will be understanding. If they are not, then they are just jealous, or too immature to understand.

2007-10-25 02:45:58 · answer #4 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0 0

your not parranoid
try and include her in activities with your mates that way youll kill 2 birds with one stone

if they dont like each other then try and devide your time equally between the two of them

and yea

2007-10-25 02:45:55 · answer #5 · answered by butter-fly-kisses 1 · 0 0

I know, I almost used that one myself but decided against it.

2007-10-25 02:40:38 · answer #6 · answered by sullerton_flats 1 · 0 0

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