2007-10-24 19:21:38 · 16 answers · asked by morayo_007 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
what do yyou need help with?
2007-10-24 19:23:30 · answer #1 · answered by igotyou888888 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's not wrong when you help your friends. And it does suck when you need help there are no friends there for you. I have had several of those friendships in my life. Just here recently had a friend who was a Hurricane Katrina victim. I brought her and her husband and her two children in to my home. My husband and I cared for them and provided for them for four months. We helped them get there own place and jobs, watched their children for them so they didn't have to pay for child care. We also provided all of the furniture in their home. My family got together mom, brother, my husband, my step dad and my self and helped them really get on their feet. My mother provided them a car. And never once was there a thank you. Then finally after they had everything they had been given they decided they didn't want to be friends anymore. I guess what I am trying to say, there are so many people that will hurt you in your life. But for every ten people that cross your path in life, one of them will be amazing, will care about you the way you care about them, will help you no matter what. Just keep your head up, and don't give up. Good friends will come. Take care and good luck.
2007-10-24 19:29:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friendship demands sacrifice from your side only. Never expect the that the friend u helped will help u in turn. A friend in need is a friend indeed, so you continue to a real friend of others but be choosy, otherwise some plan to get all from u.
2007-10-24 20:22:56 · answer #3 · answered by chulbula 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with helping friends. If you have 1 true friend in life you are lucky! But I must ask, do you have true friends are just acquaintances who are there sometime. Look for someone who treats you, like you would like to be treated.
Remember, there are people who pose as friends and try to use you to help themselves. Don't expect anything in return for helping your friends and you may not be disappointed.
2007-10-24 19:32:35 · answer #4 · answered by southernhoney 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not wrong to help a friend or a loved one knowing that even if you do need help there may not be some one there to help you.Your feelings for others to help them is a hard job and it has a down side.You help others hoping that they will be there when you need help.If it bothers you that much stop helping them and they will have to do things for them self.
2007-10-24 19:43:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then you have acquaintances only. Friends are there when you need then, even if it is just to support you emotionally. I would not go out of my way to help an acquaintance, unless it was a matter of life and death.
2007-10-24 19:26:09 · answer #6 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its good to help your friends, just make sure your friends aren't using you. If you feel like they're never there for you, then tell them how you feel. They might be oblivious to the fact that they are even doing this. Its best to bring it to their attention, but if they continue to not be there for you, maybe its time to move on.
2007-10-24 19:28:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well maybe your helping all the wrong people! so if your being "used" then yeah its worng. dont let yourself get used you should know whos a true friend and whos not always
2007-10-24 19:26:07 · answer #8 · answered by livingthemoment 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing wrong with helping friends but maybe you need to pick better friends because if their not there for you their not your friends
2007-10-24 19:54:01 · answer #9 · answered by cutie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
helping others only because you think you should get helped later is wrong. It always upsets me when people think i owe them for helping me and just expect me to know they think this.
2007-10-24 19:32:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no its not wrong to help friends.
you just haven't found the right friend to help you out.
in other words you havent fond a true friend.
when that true friend comes along you will see that he/she will be more than a brother/sister....
keep searching for him/her be patient
2007-10-24 19:39:09 · answer #11 · answered by baby gal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋