divorced 6 yrs.both parties to blame, both regret past. Im afraid to move on for two reasons- cant get comfortable with anyone and afraid of losin what i dont have anymore.still wondering if i can trust again like i did before at least not as gullable.wiser now. do i try to go back and try again or stay in limbo waiting for something else that may never come? good luck with this one!
2007-10-24 18:36:42 · 10 answers · asked by tommy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
3 kids together
2007-10-24 18:57:32 · update #1
life is too short to be put on hold you just gotta let your fears go and dont expect the first person you date to be the one but dont put your life on hold its much to short and then when your older you will regret that didnt go ahead and get on with your life
2007-10-24 18:40:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop blaming, Stop regretting!! You are wasting your life being in limbo!! Has the ex moved on? 6 years and you are still waiting you could of been married again had some kids an been happy, somewhat at least!!Life isn't gonna stand still an wait until you are ready it keeps going no matter what so you better join in or lose alot of your life in limbo!!
2007-10-25 01:51:49 · answer #2 · answered by ajjsdj4ever 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is totally up to you. If you are still in love with your ex and she has the same feelings for you then start going out romantically and see where it goes from there. Do not just jump into getting married again because she has to be an ex for a reason and those feelings are still up in the air. Try to work on those bad feelings you once had so you can stomp them into the ground and forget about them. You can also start going out trying to meet new people and see where that leads as well.
2007-10-25 01:42:52 · answer #3 · answered by luvlisteningtomusic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one successful in live ever sat back and waiting for something to fall in their lap. You need to take risks to be successful. Otherwise you will never know what might have been.
Get out there and try again. Just take your time and watch for the Red Flags that are visible with things just aren't what they should be. If you see red flags, move on to someone that feels right. Sooner or later, you will find the one that you will want to be with. It just takes time.
Good Luck, I hope you find happiness soon.
2007-10-25 01:43:42 · answer #4 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends on your personality.If you are a family man,like the company of others,didn't have kids yet,defenaetly try again by taking baby steps.You don't have to jump into the relationship too fast too deep.You can start by really,really liking someone,faling in love,dating,moving in.This can take as long as you feel comfortable.Just because it didn't work the first time ,it doesn't mean it won't ever work.Go for it,be optimistick.
2007-10-25 01:48:31 · answer #5 · answered by avavu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, i wouldn't get divorced but u can't turn it back. Well u could try go back with her n try 2 make things right cuz u can never run away from ur mistakes.
2007-10-25 01:42:33 · answer #6 · answered by wanna b me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with internet guy life is too short. Dude don't go wasting your time on doubt because if you keep doubting. YOu wouldn't be doing what you want to do. Go forward. Do your thing!!!!
2007-10-25 01:44:16 · answer #7 · answered by Jenny 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
stand up run to the door and get a life your new gf is on the way be reddy for her .. hope you like her as you have ask.. good luck.. go for it .. get in to a club and enjoy your life ..
2007-10-25 01:47:58 · answer #8 · answered by rpetch007 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she was cheating on you wasnt she. if im right run like the wind. unless your 75 years old someone girl somewhere is just as miserable as you and will know how to appreciate you and you will meet her. just go on livin bro.
2007-10-25 01:43:09 · answer #9 · answered by dragoncreep 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
definitely GO FORWARD, lifes too short to stay in limbo
2007-10-25 01:41:09 · answer #10 · answered by dixie_n_pixie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋