ive had this one girl named Emerie as my friend since 4th grade and now im in 6th.i dont really like her that much any more for several reasons...
1.she has NO style,ATOL
2.she corrects everything you say or do academicly
3.BORING as hell
4.everybody thinks she is a GUY!!!
i dont want to hurt her feelings telling her all of this but dont want to imbarase myself by hangin with her. what is a nice way to tell her shes not cool,has no style,corrects every academic thing i do and say wrong and is as boring as hell???i know i sound REALLY MEAN but you would say the same thing if you hung out with her 5 days a week for 2 yearsand probably another 4 or 5 if i dont get help now!!!! thanks for all of yall who answered!!! luv yalls!!!
2007-10-24 18:27:41 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
shes also VERY stubborn. she wount even say sup she says soup!!! wont take off her glasses,wont put her hair up or do anything with it and HATES makeup!!!!!! and sorry if i spell things wrong im in 6th grade!!!!
2007-10-24 18:37:20 · update #1
If i were you I would start hanging out with other friends. I know what you've been through. I hung out with these people but later found out they are so not cool talking about the wierdest stuff and leaving me out of everything. I just like drifted away from them. I started hanging out with my other friends and they didn't look like they cared so w/e. This way you don't really have to say anything to her. If you ever want her as a friend again you could call her up anytime. You could try to fix up her style and everyone has something annoying about them so you can't really fix the corrects everything you say or do academicly. She may not be interested in the same things as you to you she may be boring. Why don't you start talking about interesting stuff and try to get your friend involved. Try giving her hints to stop looking like a guy.
2007-10-24 18:34:35 · answer #1 · answered by searchin4more 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You can't tell her that!!!
when she corrects you, let her know that you want to leave it to the teachers to correct her, not your friends you are palling around with.
If she is boring when you are withe her ONLY, take her over to some other friends and talk with all of them, drawing her into the conversation.
Style - I'm not sure what style is - and back in 6th grade I knew even LESS about style!
If you wear the same size clothes, give her a dress and say you out grew it, or next birthday or Christmas give her a dress or something very girlie as a gift.
You can't come out and hurt her feelings like that. how would you feel if it were you? If you are still having trouble, go ask your counselor and do it in private. Trust me, later in life you will be glad that you handled it in a KIND manner, rather than being mean. i have done things I regret, but can't go back and change them.
2007-10-24 18:34:57 · answer #2 · answered by YOUR MOM ™ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then don't waste her or your time by hanging out with her. You sound shallow to me. Let her know nicely that you think she is a nice person, but you don't appreciate her correcting everything you say.
As for the style thing, don't say anything. It's not up to you to tell people how to dress. Same with the boring thing. Maybe she is shy and doesn't know how to be outgoing.
Is it really that important that she's not popular or doesn't dress fashionably? Would you like it if someone picked on your flaws?
Maybe you ought to learn to be nicer to people.
Sorry if it sounds harsh but it is true. There are things that are more important in life than analysing people's flaws.
2007-10-24 22:14:33 · answer #3 · answered by Annie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You two seem to have outgrown each other.
Sounds like she needs to be hanging out with smarter people, and you need to be hanging out with the shallow fashionistas.
You don't divorce friends... you just give them some space.
Why not sit down and have a talk with her... if she is your friend, she will listen to what you have to say, provided you are not too rough on her... use some tact.
Offer to go with her or take her shopping, and help her pick out a couple of flattering outfits that are not too difficult to manage.
Failing that, try to introduce her to some other geeks.
2007-10-24 19:29:59 · answer #4 · answered by revsuzanne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not imbarase...it's embarrass. Academically not academicly...and at all, not ATOL. It doesn't hurt to have someone correct you. I'm sure she's not doing it to show off or be a smart___, but to help you...like I just did
2007-10-24 18:32:44 · answer #5 · answered by justaskin 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
have an open forum! just the two of you.or have some friends that knows the two of you well.so that you won't embarrass her with other people who doesn't know her..
or try like, one time, give her a make over..and make her look a bit more..girly..
2007-10-24 18:34:19 · answer #6 · answered by ice_princess18 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe u should help her get some style,and just tell her nicely that it annoys u when she corrects everything u do.theres no need to be horrible to her
2007-10-24 18:34:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple tell you`re friend.....maybe "friend" is not exactly core ct but........be nice when you say that and tell some lies too......lies will help you very much in this case to don`t hurt she`s feelings ..........>:) she`s one kind of friend.........>:) one year with me and will never say a word.......(joke) >:)
2007-10-24 18:35:28 · answer #8 · answered by SSS 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, she sounds a lot cooler than you!
2007-10-24 18:30:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
i think toooo
she is a guy
2007-10-24 18:48:48 · answer #10 · answered by anit 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋