Ok i asked everyone a question about a girl who i got to school with but she is part of the popular crowd.Well now its another girl who was mean to me but now we are friends should i think about all the things she did before are affecting me now what should i do? ......help......plz....
2007-10-24 18:16:59 · 5 answers · asked by rejj1993 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
See if you could have a talk with your new friend about the way she treated you in the past. Let her know that however she treated you bothered you ... it should help to air out the issues. Hopefully you two can have a nice friendship.
2007-10-24 18:22:29 · answer #1 · answered by Kim D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st, I think that you should always remember the things she did ... but let it go... never trust 100%. I am one of those women who chooses quality over quantity when it comes to female friends... just be cautious.... don't give away all your secrets and fears... you never know...
2nd, do you know for a fact that this is the girl who originally caused you these problems.... or is it just what you "heard"?
People lie alot and I would try not to believe everything you hear.... use your best judgment.... if it feels right... stay friends... if it doesn't... then move on.
2007-10-24 18:31:06 · answer #2 · answered by yidlmama 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Next time you have a break in the action and can just rest and have a leisurely conversation... ask her "Hey, you remember when we first met and you were like this to me... what was that about? I never understood that. I'm glad we're friends now."
Off-hand, I would not trust this girl with your innermost secrets, in case she is just farming you for ammunition to use against you later. Keep your scopes up.
2007-10-24 19:36:26 · answer #3 · answered by revsuzanne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really think that she is your friend and you really wanna be friends w/her then be yourself, be honest and tell her everything..don't try to act as if nothings happen before.. she should respect you if she's really your friend.. and you should be honest to her about your feeling and whats affecting you because if you didn't say anything she can still do it again even if she's your friend now because she will think that your fine w/that.
2007-10-24 18:31:24 · answer #4 · answered by ~*poo2mcfart'y*~ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
female problemmm..
what am i doing here??
sorry
2007-10-24 18:43:30 · answer #5 · answered by anit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋