Its like this huge wind has swept into my life and its changed everything and I am floating on the wind and I know if I just go with the current everything will be ok but I don't want to bloo dy go! but I do. But I don't . arrgggghhh. Why won't it leave me alone? I don't care if its time already. And its freaking wierd. This change is wierding me out.
2007-10-24 18:02:41 · 10 answers · asked by darkling 5 in Society & Culture ➔ Mythology & Folklore
methinks this should be in the philosophy section but I couldn't find it :]
2007-10-24 18:05:26 · update #1
Picture yourself as a seed in the ground. What self-respecting seed is going to say, " No! I won't grow! I wanna be a seed!" Silly? Of course it is! Wishing that you never had to grow up didn't work, either. Whether you ever recognize it, your life is somewhat like a river. You can sit in it like a rock and never move forward, or you can flow to the next experience. Learn, grow,..........flow!
2007-10-25 06:52:16 · answer #1 · answered by peachyone 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you accept Change you will be rewarded with Personal Growth not accepting change is from the Ego the Soul enjoys the change so I guess you have to work on your "EGO" sometimes your Ego can give you a push forward and that is a good thing however the Ego can also hold us back from moving on so if you want to know more research the EGO
A Quote by Steven Foster: On Change
You may wonder,
How can I leave it all behind if I am just coming back to it?
How can I make a new beginning if I simply return to the old?'
The answer lies in the return.
You will not come back to the 'same old thing.'
What you return to has changed because you have changed.
Your perceptions will be altered.
You will not incorporate into the same body, status, or world you left behind.
The river has been flowing while you were gone.
Now it does not look like the same river.
[From The Book of the Vision Quest]
Your Ego can be your friend or your worst enemy
Your Soul will never lead you astray
Love & Blessings
Milly
2007-10-25 01:36:17 · answer #2 · answered by milly_1963 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In times of crisis I find that simple pleasures bring great comfort. Read a book. Make some tea. Bake some oatmeal cookies.
It is also important to remember that you have the power to decide. You could change your life. You could try to fight the winds of change (wasn't that a cheezy '80s ballad?), or you could go with the flow, or you could fret about it. Each option is a choice that you made. Freewill rules.
2007-10-25 01:25:19 · answer #3 · answered by Frank B 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I like speaking with metaphors too, lol.
Find a hobby or something you enjoy during. When i was going through a lot of stuff in my life, at least no matter what was going on around me, i had that thing to fall back on at the end of the day, and it was fun and got my mind off my troubles. When everything was changing around me, my hobby never did.
Which is why i wanna become an author still to this day, 'cause writing got me through a lot.
2007-10-25 01:43:17 · answer #4 · answered by [REC]-in-process 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on what type of change that you are talking about. If you are changing then that is a change that comes with growing up and you will have to decide how to handle that on your own. But if people and things are changing and that is some thing that you can control because you are in charge of what you want to do and how things should be around you. Good Luck
2007-10-25 01:14:26 · answer #5 · answered by lonehermit2000 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you just have to get used to it because that's just life and part of it is to move on with things and that's what i dont like about growing up and accepting change
hope that helps!
2007-10-26 00:43:07 · answer #6 · answered by trent best 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your kind of change will surely be hard. I am sorry it will just be hard. Though just remember you are doing the right thing Dark!
2007-10-25 01:24:30 · answer #7 · answered by Random 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are in drugs and dont no how to get out of it But it sounds to me you like this life style
2007-10-25 01:18:48 · answer #8 · answered by lala 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Its not change if you don't dwell on the past.
2007-10-25 02:18:42 · answer #9 · answered by Arcanum Noctis 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you have to read (QURAN) book of muslims, you will found yourself.
2007-10-25 06:47:21 · answer #10 · answered by naddled 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋