i'm sure all guys have been in the "friend zone" at some point, but i like this one girl but she only sees me as a friend and i know i'm in the friend zone because she said she just wants to hang out as friends...what do i do? just move on? some times i get the feeling she MAY like me but i'm only kidding myself..it's so hard because even though i know many girls, i dont have many real "friends" that are girls, she is the only one who has ever been real good with communicating with me and she's very nice and a real friend
what do i do? keep her as friend only find someone else? thank you.
2007-10-24 17:43:37 · 3 answers · asked by Mark 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Talk to her, tell you her you have something you want to talk about but you don't want it getting wierd if it's not in the direction she wants it to be. Tell her you like her and ask if she likes you back. Also remind her that even if she doesn't then you still want to be friends and you don't want it to get wierd. The way your relationship sounds it wouldn't be wierd for you two.
Good luck!
2007-10-24 17:51:23 · answer #1 · answered by feastofmagic03 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You pretyt much have described a experience I've had I'm a girl, who has a TON of guy friends (of course I have more friends that are girls though. My school and old school have a limited amount of nice guys) ANYWAYS,I really liked this one guy who was my friend, and he kinda seemed like he liked me... sorta. Like, he'd flirt and stuff and blush a bunch about me. SO one day I got up the courage to ask him if he'd go to the dance with me and he just said "I'm sorry, but I'm going with my girlfriend. I think she'd get mad at me if I went with my friend instead of her." I felt terrible, but I still really liked him. i didn't know WHAT to do. It was like that scene in hamlet "To be or not to be" but in this case it was 'To like or not to like" I thought about it for a long time then I thought of something. If I dated my friend and we broke up (which at my age is definite) we wouldn't really be friends anymore and I would much rather have him as my friend forever than my boyfriend for a little while. I decided to move on and there hasn't been one day when I have regretted it.
I hope this helped and I hope that whatever you chose to do you are glad you did in the end! Best of luck to you!
2007-10-25 00:54:32 · answer #2 · answered by ~*BLONDE*~*AND*~*PROUD*~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Great friends are hard to find. Cherish her as your friend and find someone else to date.
2007-10-25 02:35:18 · answer #3 · answered by kim h 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋