im 20 yrs old and i have 2 sons and right now im just in collage and not working, my b/f is a repair technician, but anyways ive been offered for modeling and i have always wanted to do this, ive been offered 3 times by different agencies and my boyfriend says he doesnt want me to do it? Is he being jealous? Im even 2 months pregnent and one lady said i could model for a while and then when i got bigger model for baby things.....Should i follow my this path or does my b/f have a good point?
2007-10-24 16:11:00 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
if you are not married, the choice is yours. His fears may include you finding a better guy. My opinion is to tell him (not ask him) because you will eventually loose your beauty as you age so the earlier you model, the better. If you can make some money for your family, why not. Explain to your bf properly and most importantly, tell him the benefits like he will have a gf that is a model as well as the income potential so he may possible see the good side to it. You can also ask him why not? He should at least explain it properly if he is not hiding anything from you.
2007-10-24 16:24:35 · answer #1 · answered by Storm Shadow 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't answer this for you just give you some advice and some things to consider.
Think about how this change in your life style would effect your children now and in their future. This does give you an opportunity to become more finacially secure and will help you better provide for your childrens future, but you could loose some very valuable time with them now and possibly in the future.
As far as your relationship goes talk with your boyfriend and see what is bothering him about it and do some serious thinking about what he says. Also explain to him how you feel about it and why you want to do it.
If you do decide to pursue this encourage your boyfriend to come to photo shots and see what goes on. Most photographers I know are used to dealing with these kind of situations being that there are usually a few other people sitting around during a photo shoot.
2007-10-24 16:28:57 · answer #2 · answered by umbral_traveler 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should stay in college and pursue modeling on the side, if at all possible. If you are not able to do the two at the same time, pursuing your education is most important. A modeling career does not last forever and with all of these children, you will need something stable to fall back on
2007-10-24 16:20:00 · answer #3 · answered by First Lady 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A good point about what? Your boyfriend sounds like a control freak, and he's trying to keep you from doing what you really want, what's fulfilling for you. He shouldn't have any say about your modeling, if that's what makes you happy. You're not married to him, and even if you were, if he loved you, he'd encourage you to do what you've always wanted to do. Pay no attention to him, and follow your heart. If he leaves you because of it, you haven't lost anything -- you've gained fulfillment and self-respect.
2007-10-24 16:33:57 · answer #4 · answered by gldjns 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What are you modeling? Victoria's Secret? He may have a point. Now if its Clothing in an islamic magazine, go for it. I guess if your doing maturnity clothes, does it really matter? its extremely modest if you ask me.
Talk to him about, see exactly why he doesnt what you to do it. pry just afraid you'll have all the boys oogling at you and you'll become the next carma electra.
2007-10-24 16:32:44 · answer #5 · answered by npwinder 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend has a point. You state you are in college but you spell it collage. I'd think that someone who has graduated high school would be able to at least spell the school they are attending. Get an education, you have to support those kids you popped out without a commitment.
2007-10-24 16:15:21 · answer #6 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 5⤊ 0⤋
What point does he have? That's it now that he wants? What about what you want? It'll bring in some income for your children; is he supporting your kids? No? Screw him.
2007-10-24 16:18:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do what you want to do. As long as you aren't posing nude, or anything... then he shouldn't be getting mad. If he truly cares about you... he will support you in accomplishing your dreams.
2007-10-24 17:16:40 · answer #8 · answered by abcdefghijklmnop 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend should support you. I say go for it because it's your goal and it will make you happy.
2007-10-24 16:14:34 · answer #9 · answered by Madison 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
are you married? its dumb to have babies when you are not married.
2007-10-24 16:14:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋