is the only way to get orgasm, having sexx? i've had this feeling with my bf when he touches me (over my clothes, not even under). i get this strange, but good and exciting, feeling "down there" kind of. and i begin to feel a little wet "down there". is that an orgasmm? if not, what iss? and what was i feelingg?
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2007-10-24 16:00:56 · 11 answers · asked by sexiielizabethtran 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
What you are experiencing is arousal. When you get touched your body gets all these vibes rushing through it and it creates a secretion (wetness). You will definately know when you've had an orgasm. It will feel like your body just had an explosion and you burst. Completely incredible feeling.
Sex is not the only way to have an orgasm, in fact most women can not get an orgasm only by having sex. Foreplay is very important it gets you fired up before the actual deed and many times you will orgasm in foreplay. You can get an orgams through using hands on method, the clitorus (area above the opening, feels like a little knob), g-spot (inside your vagina usually straight in and to the front, take your finger and act like you are telling someone to come here. That is how you'll find your spot) or by rubbing the clitorus and being penetrated at the same time. Some women can orgasm by getting oral, and some need oral and penetration or clitoral movement.
Experiment and you will find what it takes for you to get there. Best way to experiment, in my opinion (if you have someone to do it with, which you do) is with a partner. Makes it an interesting exciting experience. That way both you and your partner can find out exactly what makes you tick. :)
Hope that helped.
2007-10-24 18:28:36 · answer #1 · answered by feastofmagic03 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There are many different parts a female has. There is the clitorus, vagina, and inside the vagina is the G-spot. The reason you are getting wet and excited is because your body is getting ready for sex. It's called foreplay. You do not have to have sex or any type of penetration to have an orgasm. Clitoral stimulation alone can bring you to an orgasm, and g-spot stimulation can bring you to a different type of orgasm. It sounds like you have never pleasured yourself. Try it, and find out what parts are what. Good luck! You'll know when it comes!
2007-10-24 23:09:05 · answer #2 · answered by Melynda 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think it would be safe to say no.
60% of women can't achieve orgasm even with a partner during sex.
But it has been heard of where women orgasm in their sleep. It's similar to men's wet dreams.
I would say that what you were feeling was arousal. That's your body's way of telling you that you are ready for sex. But it does not mean that you should.
I hope this helps. The best of luck to you!
2007-10-24 23:16:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, this is not orgasm!!!
it is very normal all that you feel when your guy touches you
but orgasm is some thing else
yeah you might get orgasm only by touching, but not that way,
you need to be touched in all over your vagina and other parts to get an orgasm
orgasm is somthing like you wonty be able to control your self and will just feel like every thing is over
you will get some vaginal contraction while you orgasm
and it is much more powerful feeling than that you have experinced!
2007-10-25 05:51:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you were just aroused. You will just KNOW when you get one, so I guess you haven't. Any stimulation of the genitals (usually the clitoris) can do it if it's sufficient, it doesn't have to be sex. In fact most women need clitorial stimulation and can't orgasm from just straight vaginal sex. Getting wet is natural and means you're aroused and lubricated ready for sex. You get a bit wetter with orgasm.
2007-10-25 00:07:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think what you're having is an orgasm. Orgasms are like full body experiences.. everything feels good all at one time.. You are likely to be experiencing arousal. It's pretty normal used to happen to me all the time.
2007-10-24 23:48:49 · answer #6 · answered by Claudia M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont have to have sex to orgasm.most people have one by stimulating the clitoris. which is what your doing. play around a bit and youll find out what an orgasm is
2007-10-24 23:30:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, that is pretty much what an orgasm is. I hope that you are getting good grades in school.
2007-10-24 23:18:58 · answer #8 · answered by black57 5 · 1⤊ 3⤋
you could be but i am not you, most women can have orgasms without even having sex
2007-10-24 23:09:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
lol. you will know when you have had one. and no, most women do not even have orgasms during sex.
2007-10-24 23:04:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋