I'm sorry but I'm just really curious...I heard that when a girl loses her virginity it really hurts?? My friend told me that she felt like crying...Now I'm really nervous! I don't expect to loose it anytime soon, but still! I know that the hymen breaks...and I feel so stupid for asking this...but what happens after that? Do you bleed? And then does it come out or something??? I know that that is kind of gross but I just wanted to know...I'm afraid that it will be super-akward and painful! So...is it?
2007-10-24 15:48:49 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
Is the blood a lot? Like how much? Anyway to make it less akward? Do guys KNOW that it will bleed, or will they freak out and make it even more akward then it already is???
2007-10-24 15:58:30 · update #1
Well, I lost my Virginity back in 2004, and hun YES, it's painful the 1st, 2nd, 3rd, and 4th time of being in the act. (For me) (Might be diff for diff females) It also depends if your lover really knows what he's doing or not, I've had some females tell me it didn't hurt @ all. It also depends on if your lover is "Blessed" lols....(Large Penis) If the penis is small, your pain might not occur @ all, if you have any @ all. And yes, you do have some bleeding, (like a pin drop) Like I said before, it might differ from female to female because I've had friends tell me the bled like a stuck pig! lols.....Remember, when you're ready, BE SAFE. WRAP IT UP! Godbless....
2007-10-24 16:16:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Haha. I just had this conversation with my little sister!! Yes your hymen breaks and there MIGHT be a little blood but not always.(I didn't have any my first time) And wether it hurts or not depends on how comfortable you are and your level or "excitement", if you know what I mean. Don't be nervous...be relaxed and I am sure that things will be better for you.
Don't rush into it.
2007-10-24 22:55:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
As far as bleeding all bodies are different,Yes it can be painful lubricants help,relax and be able to tell him it hurts slow down take your time.I was 18 and it was painful i didn't bleed i did cry and he was very understanding.So guys don't know that a women might bleed.
2007-10-24 23:15:00 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It hurts...anyone who says it doesn't is lying. some people bleed, some don't...some have an intact hymen and others already broke theirs. Either way, it is awkward, nerve-wracking and painful. If you are with a person you care about and he is slow, gentle and careful you will be more comfortable and enjoy it mentally although physically you will not love it the first few times. Don't do it till you are ready, be protected, relaxed and remember to breathe and go slow.
2007-10-24 22:53:41 · answer #4 · answered by cmb5283 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
well it hurt a lil at first but it got numb quick so i could only feel it wen he thrust deep and like blood the size of my pinkyfingernail was on my underwear the next day. i guess it all depends on the person. i was soooooooooooooooooooooooooooo afraid to use tampons but after i just thought ive been through worse lol. if u use tampons now, i think u'll b fine like i said it depends on the person. try light tampons on ur period now and then and gradually go to reg or super/ so u wont b THAT scared!!
**oh same w/ the girl below me i wish i gave it up to sum1 else cuzzzzzz yea the first time i did it cuz like; i was jelous cuz i still liked him but he had anotha girl so i thought it wuld make him luv me and bring us closer again but it didnt.JUSt fur future refrence lol
2007-10-24 23:00:36 · answer #5 · answered by rachel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah it does but you wont die =) i promise. Its not awkward in the dark also with some music. you may bleed depending on if you have broke it before. LIke you wont bleed if you broke it playing a sport or something. Its not like you are going to see a never ending river of blood either its just gunna be some. It may be awkward but eh all our first times are. Just play some tunes and darkness! Darkness is the key.
2007-10-24 22:56:16 · answer #6 · answered by maria 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
My first time was very painful and I hurt for days afterwards. Plus I bled alot. It just all depends on the person I guess.
2007-10-24 23:47:01 · answer #7 · answered by hoppykit 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It hurt for me.. but probably because my first was you know.. large... I bled as well.
Yeah, don't be in a rush. Make sure that you love the person before you give them your virginity.. I regret my first, I wish I had given it to my current bf who means the world to me.
2007-10-24 23:01:36 · answer #8 · answered by mhyalene 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the hymen can break without having sex.. esp. if your in like advanced sports.
some girls do bleed and i heard some dont
2007-10-24 22:54:36 · answer #9 · answered by GangGreen 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
For some it is others no
2007-10-24 22:57:58 · answer #10 · answered by georgiabanksmartin 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋