ok so this guy i madeout with after knowing him for 3hrs?

Question

he was my first french and my last
this happened in May

well that was my firsr kiss and i was confused we were at a school carnival
wen i left he told everyone that i was a bad kisser = (
so i creid infront of the whole class on monday

well theres a party commming up he'll be there its a swimming pool party

what do i do!
i havent seen him since the Bazar

im already fit so thats not a promblem
should i ignore him?

should i learn how to kiss him and kiss him again to clear my name at school? (he doesent go to our school)

or should i fake about to kiss him and pour a drink on its head?
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FYI
i did get teased for this i mean guys in my school dont like me and this didnt make it any better les just say im more "popular" outside of school

fyi im 13 yrs old

Answer 1

I'd go with the fake kiss and pour a drink on his head. He SHOULD have just considered himself lucky you kissed him at all, and been grateful for the opportunity to be your first.

I'll tell you what I tell everyone between 12 and 17. Any time you get embarrassed, remind yourself that everything before college is just practice anyway. None of it really matters, none of it is "the end of the world."

Just treat it all as a learning experience, don't take it seriously and you'll be fine, I promise.

Answer 2

This guy sounds like a bit of a dick to begin with...
1. First kisses are always awkward from experience don't go as well as you imagine them...
2. Ignore him at the party - he doesn't seem worth worrying about - if he can spead rumours about you (what makes HIS definition of a "good kisser" the RIGHT one??) you don't want to be involved with him anyway.
3. Get yourself looking really hot for the party - ignore the guys that are there altogether - make your self-confidence OBVIOUS and you will have guys making the move - so you avoid looking desperate
4. Don't stress about the kissing thing, kissing is a natural thing, there is no right or wrong way to do it - just do what feels right - having the right partner helps too!!!
5. You don't need to get revenge on him - i.e by pouring your drink over him - and I can't help but wonder how you would initiate the "fake about to kiss him.." as he obviously doesn't want to go there again - just ignore him he's not worth it

Good luck!!

Answer 3

I would ignore him and just have fun with your friends. However, if he says something mean first then I like your idea of pretending to kiss him and pouring a drink on his head. It's a little immature but I'm guessing you are young and this is age appropriate. Good luck! By the way, I was a bad kisser because the guys I had kissed were bad kissers, they just slobbered all over my face. My husband is a great kisser and he taught me to be a good kisser too.

Answer 4

I'm so glad I'm not 13 anymore...guys can be real jerks. Make sure you look really good, and then either look confused and act like you don't remember who he is, as nikki_sep suggested, or go with Steve P's advice and act like he's immature because you didn't want to kiss him again. Or something like that.

Don't automatically assume that you were the bad kisser here - it takes two to tango. Don't kiss him again to 'clear your name'; trust me, this will all blow over in no time. Next week they'll all be talking about somebody else. Don't pour a drink over his head either - act nonchalant, and don't let it bother you. Concentrate on having a good time with your friends.

Also, don't make him your last french - it's really really good, as long as it's with the right person!

Answer 5

First of all, kissing him after 3 hours was pretty stupid. There are worse things he could have said about you based on that. Second, you shouldn't care about things like that. A guy you should want won't care about that, because he likes your personality, kissing is just an added bonus for him. Just ignore the guys who are making fun of you. They are just insensitive jerks.

Answer 6

Look your 1st kiss is not meant to be a good one. my 1st one was with this boy who him himself was a bad kisser and he threw himself on me and i told like 1 person he was a bad kisser and i felt so bad about it that i said sorry to him, but he has kissed many since then. And no, it shouldnt be a problem. Many people are bound to not know or care and will want to pull you anyway!

good luck
p.s your only 13, at your age many still havent pulled!

Answer 7

Go and ignore him. If he says anything to you, say "Oh...do I know you from somewhere?" If he brings up the kiss, laugh and say "Yeah, I'll kiss better when I find a guy worth my time" or something to that extent. But unless he says anything to you, just ignore him and have a good time. You are young and you will find in time, there are a lot of losers out there.

Answer 8

I say fake the kiss pour jucice all over him pay back my friend and say kiss that after you do it. Its the only right thing to do in this case. I got ur back if he try anything

Answer 9

Ignore him and hang with your own friends. If he comes over and bugs you pour a drink on his head or something or inform him that he is a terrible kisser himself.

Mostly ignore him, that might piss him off more than anything.

Answer 10

i know how you feel. I have gone through the same thing. I'd just bring another guy to the carnival and make him jealous. Just because it was your first time kissing? He should have respected that. He's a jerk. Just ignore him for the rest of your life and know that you didn't ask for what you got.