What's the fastest way to tell if a man is a "taker" who will drain you?

Question

Troll Shark: Why would I believe something that I know is erroneous?

Answer 1

go to handwriting wizard and learn what signs to look for in his handwriting. I don't recall many at the moment other than if he puts a knot in the top of his letter O, that means he is secretive, if his handwriting slants to the left he holds his emotions in but a slant to the right shows emotion, the more the slant the more emotional he is, assuming he is right handed.
there is much more on the site, and it has been shown over many years to be 80% accurate so you should be able to make a decision based upon that.
You might be able to tell whether he is a taker by looking at his past if possible unless he makes it a habit and has covered his tracks well and he may know how to keep you from suspecting him day to day but his handwriting will never lie.

Answer 2

-> Extremely social outgoing men.
(they'll want you to follow them around like a dog)
-> Achievers that have had childhood trauma's.
(they'll often turn every small thing in a power struggle)
-> Men that are insecure about their bodies and worse: intellect
(they'll spend their life trying to figure out all the wrong things to prove to you they're worthy- while there is no proving necessary)
-> Men that are influencable by other people (not necessarily other men)
(they'll either have weird reactions or tell you off for the slightest little thing they should not care about)

The worst: a combination.

Answer 3

There are many, but for me, one way to notice is when he asks for much, but does not reciprocate the same or at least close, either in attention, devotion, affection, favours or any other form of internal and external exchange that takes place between two people dating or in a romantic relationship.

Answer 4

So many of my ¨issues¨ with women stem from the barrage of claims from women that ¨all men are takers.¨ Hearing this crap in my formative years certainly didn´t serve me well.

So, do what I have been conditioned to do - assume that men (including yours truly) by definition are takers.

It´s a guilt trip you´ll never come back from.

Answer 5

Equally move forward, step by step. If you take two steps and he's behind, hit the brakes, don't take another step until he catches up. If he does catch up, he's either on a different pace or the kind that needs to be checked to move. If he doesn't catch up, then you have your answer.

Answer 6

If he's only takes and never gives that's a clear sign....he's a taker.

Answer 7

He doesn't care what you have to say or how you feel, he's always going to be the first and only person; everything is based around "me, me me". Truly the kind that you want to avoid.

Answer 8

If he quickly develops a "possessive" attitude toward you right from the start, it's likely he views you as a "possession", and thus a "taker."

Answer 9

If he has no concern for your goals and growth and he gets that blank look when you bring them up. No empathy with others or you. These are but two and there are soooo many more signs.

Answer 10

what exactly is the definition of a taker?