We've been together for almost 7 years (under the same roof) I have three teens from my first marriage. Tom and I have yet to be succesful at conceiving. I am so afraid of getting married again. ( By the way my EX and are are really really good friends. Not "really" in a bad way!!! But also losing my last name kinda freaks me out. I am 36, Married and divorced only 1 time kids all have same dad. Tom is my second very serious relationship. I love him ...
2007-10-24 14:43:11 · 13 answers · asked by Sabrina D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If you resort to asking total strangers on the internet about making a lifelong commitment, I'd say the answer is no.
You have to be the one to decide.
2007-10-24 14:47:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
If you've been shacking up for these number of years in a lot of states common law takes effect.
Communicate your fears, which are typical of a lot of women and progress forward.
2007-10-24 21:48:09 · answer #2 · answered by That NC Girl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I tend to agree with The Mrs. If you have to ask.... But you have indicated that you two have tried to have a baby? But, you are not sure you want to marry him? Something is wrong with this picture.
2007-10-24 21:57:10 · answer #3 · answered by plezurgui 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you love him and want to spend you life with him then I'd say marry him, but it seems to me like you are having doubts because you are asking all of us and that's a huge red flag.
2007-10-24 21:48:46 · answer #4 · answered by ~Sara~ 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Do what you think is right! Personally, I think if you must ask that question you should at least wait a while until you have no concerns at all. As long as you LOVE him and your kids like him, what's there to ask? :]
2007-10-24 21:47:56 · answer #5 · answered by Savvie 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You have been living like you are married for seven years. Why are you afraid?
2007-10-24 21:48:26 · answer #6 · answered by kim h 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
marry him if you love him....i'm sure it will be ok....my question is, why on Earth would you want to have kids at 36 with teenagers???????
2007-10-28 21:39:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk about some cold feet.
you have been living with him for seven years and don't want to commit, but you are 'friends with the x"
if you were a man, i would have dumped you by now.
SEVEN YEARS???? WOW!!!
2007-10-24 21:54:02 · answer #8 · answered by KRIS 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
my goodness why oh why would you even ask for an answer to a question like that... The answer is obviously yes..... Gitter Done!!!!
2007-10-24 21:49:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So marry him and don't change your name. It's not a law that you have to change it.
2007-10-24 21:56:55 · answer #10 · answered by Ade 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋