I've never really had aquaintanes or friends, I'm tired of seeing commericals, shows or anything that mentions it. I've tired to be myself when really it just ends up in an awkward scilence. I'll try to "mimic" a person and the conclusions don't come as near as they say it does. My question is, is there such a thing being friendless?
2007-10-24 14:42:05 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
How old are you? What attempts have you made to make friends? What are your interests? Join some clubs that are about what your interested in, and im sure youll meet people who share the same interests as you! Therefore becoming friends :)
2007-10-24 14:44:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friendless is a word, and is a very sad one. No one should be friendless. You say you try to be yourself, but it always ends up in an awkward silence. What is it you are saying or doing to people you meet? Trying to solve your problem by mimicry will never work as it is impossible to mimic some one over long periods. You really need to talk with someone about this. A professional therapist should be able to help you understand why you are having such a problem interacting with others. Good luck and I wish for you the chance to have and be a friend. It's wonderful!
2007-10-24 21:59:32 · answer #2 · answered by WACVET75 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel. I have acquaintances and people I just say Hi to sometimes when I pass them in the halls, but not a true friend I can trust with my secrets and have fun with. I'm never able to let loose and be myself, always uncomfortable and awkward. Maybe you are just an introvereted person and there is nothing wrong with that, just be comfortable with yourself. If you wanna make friends first you need confidence, two just make small talk with people and then see if the conversation evolves from there, three just go with the flow and be positive. Maybe you could join a club or team to meet new people and make friends. Whatever is it good luck and have a nice day!
:)
2007-10-26 00:56:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friendless never.
E.g.
At my school we have this weirdo he shaves his hair and his head is 3 times the size of the adverage head. His teeth arent perfect and he follows these 4 girls around constantly like a stalker however he still has one friend and the girls who are really popular will stick up for him if someone is bullying him for no reason.
I guess life is a big mixture of differnet socks, you can always find one but they also come in two or more.
From,
Dan
2007-10-24 21:46:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friendless is a word.
Maybe you're trying too hard. Just smile, be yourself.
2007-10-24 21:50:47 · answer #5 · answered by Esma 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just ask someone if they want to be friends.
2007-10-24 22:09:24 · answer #6 · answered by donielle 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋