I probably would have gotten over him by now but he rubs in how unhappy I look and how his new fiance has just lost a bunch of weight. I am usually one to let things go and have tried to let this go but everytime I start feeling better, he says the meanest things you can imagine to bring me back down again. How can I end this once and for all so he'll leave me alone and let me get on with my life?
2007-10-24 14:28:20 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
The best revenge you can give him is to go on with your life and show him how happy you are without him! Because obviously you will be! Keep your head up high and realize YOU were the dignified person in that relationship!!!
2007-10-24 14:35:14 · answer #1 · answered by Paula Y 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I would say if you dont have kids together then just stay away from him, and if you do have kids with him then when he gets the kids let them go and you look nice and be busy. You are giving him power that he dosent deserve, you may still love him but he has already shown his love for you. Let hm go be happy so what, get out you will find someone better believe me, been there done that and I can honestly say I never think of him. He only has what power you allow him to have over you.
2007-10-24 14:48:43 · answer #2 · answered by willettsgirl_40 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My ex left me for a 19 yr old (He is 32).
Revenge #1: When they moved in together, I found myself paying cash for a garage sale ad at the local newspaper with their address. I believe the ad read "Moving Sale - Everything must go. Sale starts at 6am. Everything indoors. Don't Miss. Ring doorbell to enter".
Revenge #2: My ex is a cop so I started dating a 6'4, blonde hair - blue eyed HUNK (Mr. January) who was also a cop but for the city police department. I showed up at an event he was attending with my muscles on my arm. Needless to say there were several women who wanted to be me. The attention was awesome and his buddies asking who his wife was with, well was simply SWEET!
PS... He has been married for a year. They have a baby that will be a year in December and she is three months prego with number 2. It's awesome to sit back and watch him struggle since the new wife doesn't work or drive. It's apparently against her beliefs. Oh - did I mention I just took him to court and he is now paying me child support for our daughter. Get creative.... men stink sometimes!
2007-10-24 19:16:05 · answer #3 · answered by Amber B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is trying to bring you down because he doesn't want to see you happy....in fact the very thought of you being happy and finding someone else scares the hell out of him.... the best thing you can do is consider the source and use what he says to motivate you.... the best thing you can do is go out have a makeover and look the best you can look and get on with your life.... the best revenge you can have on him is getting over him and enjoying life
2007-10-24 14:40:40 · answer #4 · answered by DavidV 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He isn't too happy if he is trying to irritate you . Misery loves company. Don't let him fool you that he is happy. He is saying mean things because he is unhappy. Everytime he says something ignorant , just say thank you JackAss. He'll look at you like you are crazy. No matter where you are , in public or in private. Just say thank you JackAss. Only a JackAss will walk around saying stupid things to hurt someone. That will end it once and for all.
2007-10-24 15:19:34 · answer #5 · answered by Thunder 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What you need to do is find someone or something that makes you happy. It will drive him crazy when he see's you doing something you love to do. Just cut off all ties with him also, I mean he must not be worth too much if he is making you feel the way you do about yourself. You need to get yourself a new man, and don't worry about him. Make the time you have about you.
2007-10-24 14:45:10 · answer #6 · answered by lisa_anna 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you ahven't divorecd him yet do it and take anything and everything you can and see if you can leave him and her on teh streets. Especially if you ahve the kids and make sure to give him visitation right but supervised that will get to him. ALso when he says mean things to you, jjust tell him" Oh well you ahve champange at home and settle for a couple of beers, dumbass".
2007-10-24 14:37:28 · answer #7 · answered by Always ready for anything 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Break off all contact w/him, and the best revenge is to HAVE A GREAT LIFE, and start enjoying yuorself again, like before he was yuor hubby!!
2007-10-24 15:55:00 · answer #8 · answered by happywjc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a rich old man
Find a poor biker
Send flowers to his new home with a card that thanks him for reminding you how much better off you are with out him!
Send flowers to his new wife/lover/sleaze/etc. thanking her for taking his lazy butt off of your hands!
When you see him, tell him his wallet looks like his eyes, hollow and empty!
Tell him his fiance lost all that weight so she could crawl under the pillows when he tries to make love to her.
She got skinny taking all his money to buy crack perhaps?
Call him and ask him what to wear to an orgy!
and the best for the last
FORGET ABOUT HIM
you are probably much better off for it.
2007-10-24 14:46:06 · answer #9 · answered by Sgt Big Red 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wish we could just stab or cut up the people that deserve it, and not go to jail, with that being said, i guess u should just ignore him, he sounds like nothing but a thorn in your side, and all it is gonna do is poke at you. Cuss him out, let your anger out at him, call him everyname in the book, if it makes you feel better, but if you reallly want to get on with it, just smile and say peace out. go enjoy yourself, hell do something you want to do, go visit family and tell them, but don't let him know how he is affecting you, he is gonna cheat on the next girl I GUARENTEE!!
2007-10-24 14:40:57 · answer #10 · answered by DONNAGAN 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋