like i posted resently my boyfriend just broke up with me but we have been through so much just to lose it all for other ppl. we lost our babies berly a month ago he had cheted on me for a whole yr but i gave us a chance to make it beter and now just for a stupid argument its over how can i get him to come back. im going trough the most painful time in my life thats why i need him. im losing weight cant sleep cant eat , i need him, wat should i do please
2007-10-24 14:15:05 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Newborn & Baby
You do not need him! If he cheated on you why would you want to be with him? And if he caused you to lose your babies not sure if that means miscarriage or not?? Anyhow why do you want his sorry ***??? You need to focus on yourself and getting better emotionally. So sorry for your loss!
2007-10-24 14:22:17 · answer #1 · answered by anjelahoy 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
no man is worth what you are going through. and if he is that heartless to leave you at a time when you need him most hes a very selfish uncaring person and you can do so much better. and remember there are plenty of good men out there who won't cheat and treat you the way you deserve. and if it was ended over a stupid argument then he was looking for an easy out. he probably has another girlfriend and didn't have the balls to break up with you in a decent adult way he had to wait for the perfect moment to give him a excuse. very immature and it sounds like he has a lot of growing up to do. and if he cheated for a whole year and you stayed with him hes going to keep doing it cause he knows he can get away with it and i can't see anybody wanting to live their life like that. i am all about sharing but that is something that should never have to be shared. i'm very sorry about your loss but honey forget the dirt bag and find yourself a real man.
2007-10-24 14:26:25 · answer #2 · answered by Dan D 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Honestly its tough but he is NOT worth the pain. My ex and I were together for 6 years. I thought he was great. I thought he was my soul mate. Then one day I went up to my friends house and she was in her room. I noticed he had been on line chatting with her. So being snoopy I opened it. He was very sexual with her, sending her porn and trashing me. I was pretty devastated. The hardest part is I felt like dirt and when I broke up with him it didn't even phase him. It was really horrible. But now, a year and 1/2 later, I'm in a great relationship and I have a beautiful daughter! I never would of had this type of happiness had I taken that sorry excuse for a man back!!!!! Learn to love yourself and find a man worthy of you!!!!
God bless and take care!
2007-10-24 15:11:04 · answer #3 · answered by lovelylady 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You are most likely more upset about losing your innocent babies than losing him. He was not fully there for you while you were pregnant and before if he was sleeping with someone else. You only think you need him. Talk to your doctor about Post-partum depression. I went through this when I lost my baby girl at 21 weeks. You will get through this.
2007-10-24 14:30:16 · answer #4 · answered by Ryan's mom 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he is your first love, those are always the hardest to move on from. People manage to do it though so just break off contact with him and keep your eye out for a new guy. The pain will ease with time, could take years if you don't find a new love though.
2007-10-24 14:26:29 · answer #5 · answered by Oxl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ah, sorry to inform you of this grisly fact, but if your babies were taken away by a state agency, then you had something to do with it too, even if you did nothing wrong.. the key word is probably that you DID NOTHING. And if he has caused you all this trouble, you need to get off your whiny butt and go straighten out your life on your own, because nobody is going to get your babies back for you but you, and you can't do that if you don't straighten out your life. And no one is going to do that for you.
2007-10-24 15:28:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Needs and Wants confuse people. You want a man? If that is the case you NEED to find one that treats you with respect. Go read a romance novel by Nicholas Sparks. Start with "The Notebook." It's a story based on real people and real love. Sounds like your relationship involved you loving him, and him loving himself. Always tough to cut your losses, but that's how good investors survive.
2007-10-24 14:29:52 · answer #7 · answered by muxecd 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
you need to wake up he cheated on you and broke up with you and you still want him whats wrong with you there are alot of guys out there that are alot better you need to hang out with some friends get out get him off your mind before you hurt yourself over something stupid
2007-10-24 14:22:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you want to have a chat.
Tell him thant you cant sleep or eat and you really want to give you a second chance!!!!
2007-10-24 14:28:20 · answer #9 · answered by Cantxdancexenough 3 · 0⤊ 4⤋
move on. u've already tried. u can do better
2007-10-24 14:25:39 · answer #10 · answered by Solicia 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋