i see the girl i like, for 15 minutes of first hour (in school) then walk her down stairs. and if i wanted i could see her for 10 more minutes after school. also i'll call her, or she'll call me sometimes that same night. is this to much. becouse today i felt that shes getting annoyed by me. should i see her less, and stop calling her? i dont want her to think im boring (wich im not) Thanks
2007-10-24 12:59:17 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
If you are noticing that she's getting annoyed, it's really best to back off just a little bit. Maybe you can say hi to her just to touch base, but keep it brief. If she feels like it, she'll call you.
I have been in this situation myself. My friend had a crush on me and he came and sat down with me and my friends before school started. I'd see him later in Spanish class. I didn't like him in that way and it started to kind of annoy me because I knew he had feelings for me. She might be trying to let you know that she only likes you as a friend.
Anyway, good luck! By the way, I ended up dating that same friend that annoyed me like 2 years later. Had a nice 5-year relationship with him!!! Everyone was surprised! So if you like her romantically, don't sweat it. As soon as you see signs of annoyance, back off a bit.
2007-10-24 13:06:14 · answer #1 · answered by Cochy 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't completely ditch her, but maybe skip a day or two of calling her and wait to see if she calls you. Girls usually show annoyance when they feel it, so do your best to read her and give her a little space.
2007-10-24 20:02:59 · answer #2 · answered by Bobby 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If she seems aggravated then don't call her. Wait for her to call you. Some girls like clingy guys and some don't. You have to figure out what she likes.
2007-10-24 20:03:33 · answer #3 · answered by MIKEY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call her every too days and buy her flowers every month or any time you like a nd back off some.
2007-10-24 20:05:14 · answer #4 · answered by dzyre l 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Listen, I;m a girl i am right? Yeah I am, anyways I think the best way is to talk toh her. You'll never know what SHE thinks about you
2007-10-24 20:02:42 · answer #5 · answered by aprildreamer65 1 · 1⤊ 2⤋
just back off a little bit and let her come to you.
2007-10-24 20:01:46 · answer #6 · answered by sweetjade210 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should wait intill she calls you
2007-10-24 20:02:24 · answer #7 · answered by Jasmine D 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
do something spontaneous!! and i talk to my friends more than that.lol.
2007-10-26 17:37:55 · answer #8 · answered by andrea v 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋