If you have done this before, please, help me to be like you! Be my guide!
2007-10-24 12:28:38 · 25 answers · asked by Kiero M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
you're pathetic. point blank. If he's married chances are he loves his wife and when he goes home to her hes not even thinking about you so, Im not even going to waste one more sentence telling you how badly you need a morality check.
2007-10-24 12:31:42 · answer #1 · answered by jayo88 3 · 7⤊ 0⤋
Okay guys, she asked a question. She needs answers -not insults. To those of you that earned 2 points for insulting a user, congratulations. You got paid to be a jerk.
As far as influencing a married man to leave his wife, I feel that your efforts would be fruitless. Are you important to this man? In some way, probably so. The thing is though, you are out of his general comfort zone (which is with his wife and family). Chances are, something important is missing in their marriage...Perhaps the fire has worn out and the couple hasn't made an effort to "keep it real". In marriage, the new will always wear off and couples must work to maintain their passion. Passion is only temporary and if you were to hook up with this man on an exclusive basis, the passion would inevitably fade with time. So then what? Will he seek another woman behind your back to attain a form of passion that doesn't exist? People that run after passion will run for the rest of their lives. Passion that doesn't fade can only be found in heaven, hollywood, and in novels.
Will breaking it off hurt? Well, frankly speaking, yes -it will hurt like hell for a while. On the other hand, in the long run, carrying on with a married man will be more painful than breaking it off.
Will time heal your wounds? Nope...Let's be honest here:
With some exceptions, most people get over their prior lovers when they meet someone new. Meeting someone new provides closure and allows you to seal that particular chapter in your life for good. It enables you to begin a whole new chapter, which may be the final one altogether.
If you currently don't feel loved by a man, don't base your entire self-worth on these feelings. If you're looking for a man that will provide you with ultimate satisfaction, you'll look for the rest of your life. Much like passion, that type of satisfaction can only be found in heaven, hollywood, and in novels.
Another man will surface...They always do and you can't deny that it doesn't happen. Surely you've had other lovers and surely some of them were single. Wink.
2007-10-24 21:22:27 · answer #2 · answered by Grace777 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
simply put
if this guy is married you do not want him
you merely think you do
consider this ....
you win and he leaves the wife ...okay now what
the family he just left you for will be getting half his money
they will be on his mind about 60% of the time
leaving only 40 percent of his time for you and his job
now in order to provide you and him a decent life he will have to go back to school get a better paying job and not be home much while that happens
his kids will be taking up his weekend time and if he is lucky at least one week night as well
between the home work from school the kids and his job you will find that you fit into the schedule about 4 hours a week and thats so he can 'get a little' to tire him out for bed ...
are you sure this is what you really want
another girls leftovers that have been picked clean with no chance of recovery
2007-10-24 19:48:37 · answer #3 · answered by Imagine 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You know that you really put yourself out there and set yourself up with this one! I am a married woman and I don't understand why you would want to take someone away from their wife... Family! Does he have children? Have you thought about what that would to do his family? Of course, it takes two and we do not know the specifics... If he is a dog, I'd say his wife deserves to know and you should be with him. Just know that if he cheats on her, he WILL do it to YOU! You can not teach an old dog new tricks. There are too many good men out there in the world! Why not wait for the RIGHT, SINGLE man to come your way... There are too many diseases out there... And woman who will not just give there husbands up... You're playing a VERY dangerous game. Think about what you're doing! K.A.R.M.A!!!!
2007-10-24 19:42:24 · answer #4 · answered by 2012 will be a great year 2 · 5⤊ 0⤋
If he hasn't left his wife for you, there is nothing you can do to force him to divorce. Chances are your just his playmate whom he chooses to commit adultery with. Get out and get out quick there are too many "single men" in this world to waist your time and effort on the "married cheating types". Besides would you really want to be with a guy who's mentality deems cheating OK in a marriage? Pick yourself up from the mistakes you've made so far and piece together a more respectable women for your own good!
2007-10-24 19:41:58 · answer #5 · answered by Luv4Nevaeh 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, but if you are looking for support and a way to cause devistating pain to innocent people, you aren't going to get it here. Hope you enjoy looking at the person you've become in the mirror every day, cause it ain't a pretty sight.
Too bad you aren't capable of having a relationship with someone who is really available and must focus on those already committed.
2007-10-24 19:56:36 · answer #6 · answered by pussycat 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree with Angel. Karma's just around your corner. Find your own man, and let it be done to you. Most "real" men wouldn't disrespect their marriage, wife and self for a person like you. They're married for a reason.
2007-10-24 19:42:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You are contemputiuos!! What goes around, comes around, remember that years from now when a young hottie is breaking your home up!! You'd better give this some thought!! There is a lot of bad words for women like you!! And I don't talk/think that way, so I won't tell ya
2007-10-24 20:16:38 · answer #8 · answered by happywjc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what you are trying to do is terrible, sure people do it and have done it but that does not make it ok, and ask you self this question do you want a man that could be made to leave his wife, what makes you think that he would not do the same to you?
2007-10-24 19:51:24 · answer #9 · answered by Matthew M 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Let me tell u something. you are wasting your time if u think this man is going to leave his wife for u. He is just using u for whatever he's using u for. Get someone who is single with no strings and leave that man and his wife alone.
2007-10-24 19:55:39 · answer #10 · answered by cmonique03 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why would a man go after a whore when he has a wife at home to take care of his needs? I suggest you just keep standing on corners getting men to pay to phuck you because that's all you're worth
2007-10-24 19:56:07 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋