I'm just wondering if the saying that "once a cheater always a cheater" is true for women as well. So the question is, do you find yourself more likely to cheat again after you have cheated once?
2007-10-24 11:03:48 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
LMAO...This is what they call pay back right? all the chicks who've been in here whining my husband cheated what do I do and all the chicks who've answer'd and stated men are this n that n once a cheat always a cheat?
For the record I've never cheated , but to answer your question , any woman who answer's this and state's that yes they cheated and no they wouldnt do it again , is telling about the same amount of truth as guys who claim they wont do it again , get my drift ;o) .
2007-10-24 11:41:04 · answer #1 · answered by JadeyOz 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
In my opinion, once a cheater does not deserve another chance to be able to do it again.
Simply put, if my wife ever cheated on me, that will be the end of it. There will be absolutely nothing that she could do or say that would mean anything or make it go away. I will never forgive her and she can go and be with someone else so she can possibly cheat on him and be his headache and NOT mine. But thats just me.
2007-10-24 19:05:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
People can change,just because someone cheated that doesnt mean they will do it again.For most women something is missing in their life or they get depressed and have low self esteem thinking they are not worthy of being loved.I have been there and I stopped so I know anyone can.My reason for cheating was my husband never acted like I existed or like he loved me,but that was many years ago.Now our life is wonderful and the sex is unbeatable,we respect each other now.
2007-10-24 18:55:25 · answer #3 · answered by acr_lover 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was married for 10 years and too long I should have left sooner. My ex was mean,hateful, and called me names and treated me like crap. I did cheat, but no so much for sex, it was because I wanted to matter to someone. I wanted to talk to someone and for them to listen. I wanted the hugs, and the nice words more than anything else. I am remarried to someone that puts my needs right up there with his. He is the best and the funniest and sweetest,and I never ever thought that I would ever find someone that treats me as good as he does.I have been remarried for 4 years, and just bought a new home and cheating is the furthest from my mind.I'd get divorced before I did that again, it hurts a lot of people besides yourself.
2007-10-24 18:12:29 · answer #4 · answered by Godsgirl 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Nope, but the person needs to seek help and get to the bottom of her personal issues and what caused her to cheat--which takes time, energy and most likely some counseling. For some, when you make a mistake and see the results of your actions on other people and yourself, you learn your lesson and don't ever want to revisit the same scenario.
2007-10-24 18:22:17 · answer #5 · answered by Lioness 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No...If you are a man or a woman and you have cheated once dose not mean you will again! If you really want to change then you will if you don't care yes, then you will again and a again!!
2007-10-24 18:09:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If it was likely once, it would be likely again.
2007-10-24 18:24:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
It applies to both genders.
2007-10-24 18:24:02 · answer #8 · answered by S K 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not a women here...but.......Yeah !!! Gender plays no role
2007-10-24 18:07:38 · answer #9 · answered by hghostinme 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋