this is my first time . let me know what you think,
2007-10-24 10:53:04 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Don't do it. It will ruin your marriage.
2007-10-24 10:57:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I know where your coming from here I guess my hubby also has been through this in his life also wanting me to do the same.. I have said no to my hubby an advice you the same thing unless you feel you can do this.. I dont like the idea of afterwards on how we will feel if we do ahead with this I guess.. Its all sounds new an exciting now but will you think differently or will your hubby afterwards.. I guess if your marriage is stronger enough to take this thats ok its all about what you want also not just your hubby here an do feel men worry about there needs more so at times.. I want alot of things also but can I have an mine arent sexual huh.. think about first I know my hubby is very insecure with that an me not wanting why I said no.. think smartly.. good luck
2007-10-24 18:05:32 · answer #2 · answered by Sweet_mystery 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, please do not do it. A marriage is between 2 people, not 3. There was a lady on here before who wanted to try it, well the girl ended up being more interested in her husband and not her and she WATCHED her husband have sex with this other women. Do you really want to feel that?
Its a horrible feeling and it will NEVER leave your mind. You and your husband will constantly fight about it. I say, NO!!
2007-10-24 18:01:56 · answer #3 · answered by -----------n 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hopefully you already have a lawyer, 3 somes most of the time end badly. There is hurt feeling, jealousy etc. Don't be surprised if things turn sour.
2007-10-24 18:22:20 · answer #4 · answered by hungryeyes001 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If it's not something you've thought about on your own, then I wouldn't do it. If you're into chics as well then I'd say go for it. Lot's of married couples play with a 3rd partner. Just think about all the possible outcomes before you do it. And don't, I repeat don't, just do it for him.
2007-10-24 18:01:55 · answer #5 · answered by Bull in a china shop 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If your comfortable with it why not! I would if I was comfortable with the other girl and my boyfriend/husband wanted too. Just talk to him about it before it happens and you should let him know ahead of time what its ok for him to do woth the other girl and what you would not approve of him doing with the other girl.
2007-10-24 17:58:41 · answer #6 · answered by ★★pixie★★ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is the quickest way to end a marriage.
2007-10-24 17:56:35 · answer #7 · answered by kim t 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
What do you want?
It's important what you think about that.
Stand up for yourself. Have an opinion.
Don't let him make your decisions for you.
2007-10-24 17:58:19 · answer #8 · answered by stink 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yuk!
2007-10-24 17:55:54 · answer #9 · answered by Haggis Basher 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
done it. love it. will do it again.
do it only if you feel comfortable doing it. i did it cuz i was curious.....and got hooked. lol
2007-10-24 18:01:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋