it's an issue of control.
we can prevent it by teaching people how to resolve conflicts, what to expect (and not to expect) out of relationships, and to teach peace and non-violence.
it's impact to society - it harms the family - the children may become abusive themselves in the future, they may suffer anxiety & depression. the son may kill the father and end up in jail. the woman loses time at work (may end up fired), she may become permanently injured or scarred, she may suffer depression or post-traumatic stress syndrome. days of missed work & loss of production can add up to millions to the national economy. it costs the country money and resources to try to prevent violence and to treat it.
2007-10-24 14:40:15
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answered by Anonymous
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The major causes of women abuse sometimes depend on what country they live in and the types of abuse you are referring to. Some countries tolerate abusive behaviors, which in turn encourages these behaviors even more. In the United States, some men test their strength on a woman to see how much control he has over her. It first starts emotionally, if he get his way in abusing her in that manner, he loses respect for her then one day he will try it physically. Some women feel like it is their fault (this mentality usually comes from poor upbringing as a child who came from a home with no dad or dysfunctional parenting). Some women feel that the man will change if she does as he say. For the most, abuse women who are in a reoccurring cycle of abuse, they see their men like they see their children. That their jobs is to help this person grow into a better person and if he has a problem he refuse to change, to treat it like a disability that they just live with.
For those who break the cycle, they constantly carry a feeling of victim-ism which is also not healthy. If you know someone who has been through this, let her know that she is a hero for getting out of that situation. Better yet let them hear this song "I'm Not a Victim" from the website: http://www.broadjam.com/artists/artistindex.asp?artistID=52975
Another place for them to get help is at http://www.ndvh.org/ or 1-800-799-SAFE (7233)
2007-10-24 11:09:29
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answered by izzidaisi 1
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The major cause of abuse towards women or any other creature is fear.
Fear drives the man to abuse the woman. He has been taught to fear and hatred is the symptom. The result is abuse.
What we can do is teach that the hatred is unwarranted and educate the ones who teach this brand of hatred.
The impact to society is as it has always been ...damned.
In my faith as a Christian we are taught that the man's wife is to be held blameless for everything just as the Lord Jesus holds the man blameless in all things.
Respect for women is taught to us by the actions and the words of the Christ Jesus.
2007-10-24 11:31:49
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answered by the old dog 7
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Some women are weak emotionally and if a man finds out and he is evil he will abuse. Some women are weak financially and the same can happen.
If a woman will decide she doesn't need a man to be happy and she has a good education and her financial house in order she is resistant to abuse.
Evil men test to see if they can find a victim. He will say something like if you don't like it you can leave and if she doesn't leave will try something more. Withholding affection unless she does what he wants then finding out she will do anything for him will make him stronger.
I had a husband who tried physical abuse but I told him if he even threatened I was gone, he believed me for years. When he tried again I divorced him.
Now I have a 21 year relationship that is non abusive. I own the home and I have a good job and money saved. If he is unhappy his only choice is moving out. I try to make him not want to move out but I don't have any fear of being alone and he knows verbal, emotional or physical abuse isn't tolerated.
It isn't a woman's fault if she is abused sometimes it comes on slowly and she finds herself barefoot and pregnant with no job skills 50 miles from the nearest town with no car. Getting out isn't easy and not getting in isn't easy.
Those of us that understand try to help them by funding women's shelters to help them start over.
2007-10-24 12:03:39
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answered by shipwreck 7
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Religion.
2007-10-24 12:37:42
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answered by Anonymous
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perche non usi yahoo.it ? Possiam fare quello che stiamo gia facendo, scorragiare violenza di ogni tipo castigando gli agressori. Afinche non saremo capace di prevedere il futuro ala Minority report e piu o meno lunica cosa che si puo fare. La nostra societa dice che la violenza contro le persone e torto, certe parti del medio oriente dice che e giustificata sotto certe condizioni.
2007-10-24 12:23:03
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answered by Anonymous
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i'm not sure. yet once you ever discover out, will you enable the male populous of the worldwide comprehend? easily nonetheless, it actual relies upon on what she unearths beautiful approximately you. each and every physique has their very own motives and issues they seem for in a mate, so there is only no one answer to furnish. often conversing in spite of the shown fact that, maximum prevalent women folk % to be dealt with with kindness, admire and dignity. Equality in many cases is a great ingredient. (circulate determine) yet comprehend, in my regular observations equality to a girl does not recommend that she has to do each and every little thing on par to that of a guy or be only like him. It only potential that throughout a dating placing, the two each and every physique is heard and valued for another's perspectives, uniquenesses to boot as similarities. i think of maximum women folk respond to a guy that's considerate and real. a guy that places his kinfolk first and easily shares high quality time with those he loves. women folk are often as flesh hungry as guy while it includes checking people out. distinctive women folk at the instant are not elementary pressed to admit that throughout spite of the shown fact that that is real as real. yet even then in maximum situations, their flirtations are greater of a favorite and relaxing assertion fairly than a regular Male's predatory nature to overcome and divide in case you comprehend what I recommend. undesirable boys might get woman's preliminary interest. maximum adult males comprehend that is not that confusing to bypass disguised undesirable intentions over a woman's head. women folk are creatures that crave interest and devotion. yet those adult males in no way final that long as quickly as she will become sensible to his precarious procedures, which in maximum situations isn't that long. My maximum suitable advice is to be your self. in case you in no way ought to play somebody you at the instant are not so as to benefit the understanding of a definite woman, than no injury can ever be executed. You by way of fact the real guy, guy or woman, individual, will charm to a real women folk, guy or woman, individual. those style of relationships look to final lifetimes by way of fact the allure substitute into of real distinctive characteristic and not an act or that 3 month blind bliss.
2016-10-04 12:32:29
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answered by Anonymous
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Men are the major cause of abuse of women. If it weren't for them, there'd be no problem...
2007-10-24 13:07:46
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answered by Anonymous
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