No offense or anything, but whats the first thing that comes to your mind when i say "black girls." I know I am one, but just be completely honest. I've always been curious....
2007-10-24 09:46:00 · 26 answers · asked by m&fn princess 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Other - Cultures & Groups
Every time I hear the word "black girls" I always think of women of the African persuasion.
2007-10-24 09:49:06 · answer #1 · answered by Einstein 3 · 5⤊ 1⤋
Whats the first thing that comes into mind? Well they are females, that are of ebony color, and they are just another humanoid on this planet. There is a lot of good looking ones, and some that are not so good looking. Just like every other racial girl in this world.
2007-10-24 17:17:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
No offense taken. When you say that, I think first of the shame that white men can't enjoy black girls for what they are and visa-versa. Why does the color of our skin put us into a category? Why can't we just look past that? I wish I knew.
2007-10-24 17:22:04 · answer #3 · answered by united9198 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
The first thing that comes to my mind are... black girls.
What are you really trying to ask? Do you want to find out if white guys are attracted to black girls? If so then some are some aren't.
2007-10-24 16:48:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 1⤋
umm... nice butt? haha ok beyond the superficial stuff? I find black women sexy but i find women sexy in general, i look at no woman any differently because of the color of her skin
Im assuming its a stereotype, but a lot of people say that black women are more aggressive, and if thats true i would like that very much... but mostly the nice big butt... thats hot
2007-10-24 16:49:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 10⤊ 0⤋
Full lips, muscular legs & buttocks are what comes to mind if you're asking about physical attraction. But physical is what all men see in women of any race, so don't flame me for being truthful!!!
2007-10-24 17:15:17 · answer #6 · answered by freeriderss 5 · 2⤊ 2⤋
As long as you're curious and not fishing for comments or else I am going to have to help you sista.
2007-10-24 17:00:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Two images:
"En Vogue" and Mae Jemison. Then I smile and get goosebumps.
2007-10-24 16:50:28 · answer #8 · answered by Hoosier Daddy 5 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Nothing different than if you said "white girls." Why? I think it would be better if you informed us what you think white guys think when we hear or say black girls.
2007-10-24 16:48:35 · answer #9 · answered by Kiker 5 · 5⤊ 2⤋
Actually ... no particular image comes to mind. I think of several images. Just like saying "white girls" points the listener in no specific direction, neither does "black girls."
Do you want an image related to black women? I think of Condoleeza Rice and some of my coworkers. I also think of people I've seen out in public, a wide range of social and economic stratifications.
Do you want an image of black teenagers? I think of the students I've seen waiting at bus stops or at the shops I frequent in my town. No specific image, just kids dressing and acting like young people do these days.
Do you want an image from the hip-hop culture? It wouldn't be a positive one, but neither would a image of Hollywood or what passes for entertainers who happen to be white. I don't think any of them do anyone any favors in terms of the image they present or the example they set, whether men or women.
Are you fishing for a blanket image that is somewhate bigoted? Do you want me to "honestly" admit to racially motivated thinking and imagery. Fine, when somebody says street gang I first think of young black or hispanic men ... because where I grew up that's who that was. When someone says drug dealer, I think of the meth addicts and dealers I've seen in small towns (I travel a lot) and in the Mid West, and that face happens to be white (kind of craggly and nasty looking ... but white nonetheless).
Are you searching of what has become socially unacceptable racial profiling in peoples' hearts? It's unavoidable, and no race can profess innocence in this regard. For as many white people who harbor negative images of black boys, girls, men, and women, there are just as many negative images of whites held by our black friends and neighbors. Are there still black people out there that assume that because you are a white man, that you harbor racist feelings toward black people? That is a stereotype that is rampant in media and the writings and speeches of black leaders like Farakhan, Jackson, and Sharpton, but I can't speak to how their opinions are received by average black Americans.
While I can appreciate a desire to understand each other ... I can't help but feel like you may be fishing for racism here, and less interested in the fact that most successful white men don't have time to be racist. It's outdated thinking, and I have better things to do with my time than sit and think of ways to exclude bright and talented people from my world just because their skin color doesn't match mine. Part of what keeps the racial divide alive in this country is the reluctance to move on by the men who pass as leaders in the black community (mentioned above). They are single issue politicians who will only fight this fight, whether it is important or not. There are so many more issues of consequence to the black community than whether or not the whites like you or think of the images you want them to think of. For once, let's try asking "how can we help each other?" instead of "why don't you like me?"
I think I'm tired of this conversation and it's time to focus on the American people, not African-American people, not Anglo-American people, not Hispanic or Asian-American people, but American people. We need to start to forgive and get past what happened 50, 60 or 100 years ago. When we stop drawing lines in the sand and start accepting each other (it works both ways).
2007-10-24 17:10:09 · answer #10 · answered by Been There 4 · 6⤊ 1⤋