Is he cheating?

Question

my longtime boyfriends(9yrs) brother called him and asked him to drive him to a girls house that his brother likes and he said he would then i waited about 3 hrs and called him and asked him where he was cause i thought he was dropping him off there and when i called him he didnt answer untill 10 mins later and said they were playing cards. so i was like okayyyyy and about 2 hrs later i called him again and he says the car is broke down and they are waiting for someone to help them. his brother is one of those people that will have sex with anything that walks..lol but should i belive him or not was he really playing cards with someone he doesnt know with his brother or am i just a worry wart?

Answer 1

I'm not gonna say anything about him not marrying u cuz I know GOOD accidents happen (getting pregnant), so its vry hard to afford to get married, was w/ mine 7 yrs realized ya big wedding not happening hello courthouse...

Anyways is he cheating hmmmmmmm has he ever pulled this b4? Has he cheated b4? Do u have that gut feeling he cheated?

Just cuz his bro's a pig doesn't mean he is..only u can answer this question u know him and knows how he acts not us... But if I had to guess I would say it seems a lil fishy and just to keep ur eye open about it, don't accuse him til ur certain!!

Answer 2

Lets put it this way I've been dating my Fiance for 4 years and I know for a fact (since it has happened before) that if he was in any trouble like his car breaking down or something in that matter. I'd be the FIRST person he'd call. How is he just going to go about his business and not even call you. Then all of a sudden when YOU call HIM his car is broken down. Were there any car problems before? If a car is in good working condition then they just don't break down without you know. There would've been some sign of car trouble unless you misuse the car.

Answer 3

There is no reason he couldn't have answered his phone while he was "playing cards." Also, why didn't he tell you he was going to stay to play cards?? I would be suspicious, but that's me...the whole story sounds like a line of shi**. Ask him what game they were playing, who was there, who won?...details, then ask the brother the same questions - see what answers you get. Either way, don't ask questions you already know the answer to. A woman's intuition does not lie. Sorry sweetie. I feel your pain. Good luck :)

Answer 4

if something someone is telling u makes no sense than its a lie. he was suppose to drop off the brother, must have been something there to keep him. first he was playing cards, than the car broke down, they were at a girls house, read between the lines, it certainly sounds like cheating.

Answer 5

You already know the answer. Do you have a reason to be suspicious? Has he done this before? If you feel that he is, then go with your gut. It's hard to be in a relationship with someone you don't trust. Evaluate your relationship and see if it's really worth keeping. If it isn't, move on. If it is, talk to him about your fears and see what he says. If he takes you seriously and wants to talk about it, it's worth saving. If he blows you off, he just might be cheating. Let it go.

Answer 6

Either way no matter what he was doing, he should have called you to let you know where he was. You have been with this guy 9 yrs, it's not like you aren't that serious. Without knowing your guy better I don't want to say he is cheating, but it does sound suspicious. Does his brother do drugs, maybe there was something else there he wasn't supposed to be doing that he doesn't want you to know about?

Answer 7

By your story it sounds fishy but don't be too sure about. I'm not in a relationship with a boy myself but my friends are and I see everything. My advice is that first you should ask yourself if he has cheated before, how many girlfriends he previously had before you, and if he has been acting out of character. If you are still concerned you should then sit down face-to-face with him and ask again. Express your feelings about the situation. I know it's sounds cheesy but being able to confront and thinking before you say will make a very healthy relationship. The mistakes I see my friends make is that they draw their conclusions too soon and act before they even thinking it through. And don't be clingy about it, not attractive.

Answer 8

I would think that something was up. If he was going to stay and play cards he should have called. If the car broke down he should have called. Go with your gut.

Answer 9

Well, he could be and he could not be, you see before I got married I was dating this guy, who always made plans to see me in the evening, and then after him not showing up, I called his cell and he said he was playing cards with his friends and to drunk to drive, so he could not come over that night.

This went on for a while until I found out he got another woman pregnant, and that was it!!!!

Lies, lies, lies, I kicked him out and found a much better, wonderful, non-lying man in the world who is a wonderful father to our daughter and a hard worker to provide for his family!!!!!

Answer 10

1) You have kids with a man you have been with for 9 years but aren't married? Why not? He has made you a baby momma!

2) If you have to ask, he most likely is cheating! Clearly he doesn't respect your enough to make a legal commitment so why wouldn't he cheat?

When will you ladies learn? The day you decide to be a baby momma without getting married, you basically give up your dignity and respect!