2007-10-24 09:20:03 · 18 answers · asked by xxii 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
um....you mean an adulterer? only seems that way to you, to me both seem equally selfish and show a huge lack of morals and character
2007-10-24 09:25:43 · answer #1 · answered by reddevilbloodymary 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
THAT IS BECAUSE WE HAVE BEEN TAUGHT BY SOCIETY THAT MEN HAVE ALWAYS BEEN ON THE TOP, OR SHOULD I SAY MEN ARE IN ADVANTAGE THAN WOMEN. BUT THE TRUTH IS IT IS THE SAME NO MATTER WETHER IT'S A MAN OR A WOMAN. AND WHEN IT COMES TO SIN ALL IS EQUAL IN THE EYES OF GOD. YES, IN GODS EYE, FOR HE DOES NOT LOOK IF YOU'RE A MAN OR A WOMAN. WHEN YOU SIN THEN IT'S A SIN. AND ALL SIN IS PUNISHABLE. PEOPLE HAD JUST MADE THE NOTION THAT IT WOULD LOOK TO BE A LIGHTER SIN FOR MEN, BECAUSE THAT IS THE WAY OF THE WORLD. BUT WITH GOD ALL IS THE SAME. A SIN IS A SIN NO MATTER WHO COMMITS IT.
2007-10-24 17:10:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A mistress destroys a family...a lover is with someone with a DESTROYED family.
If a husband cheats usually the wife will do everything to save it..
But if a wife cheats...the husband will kick her out of the house
2007-10-24 09:29:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because men are neurotically insecure and therefore want their wife/girlfriend to be sexually inexperienced so that he doesn't have to worry about her comparing him to her past lovers. So over the years, men have forcefully defined the gender inequality as such: it's okay for men to have many sexual partners throughout his life, but not women. And the worst thing is... many women have bought into this stupid notion also and join men in calling other women "hos" because they are doing the same thing men are... playing the field and loving life.
2007-10-24 09:43:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Double standards got to love 'em...NOT!!! Reminds me of the saying, "I used to think I was being a whore...then I realized I was behaving like a man."
Yes, that saying's a bit sexist...but the sad thing is a guy can go out, "hit it" and people think "it's alright he's a great guy...he can catch the girls", then they turn around and talk down about the girls he nailed... it's a crock...
2007-10-24 10:01:50 · answer #5 · answered by Kooter 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Same reason its worse for the girl who got pregnant before marriage than the guy who helped her get that way! Double standards.
2007-10-24 10:14:42 · answer #6 · answered by mikeehr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's that whole double standard about women sleeping around being wh*res and men sleeping around being well versed.
2007-10-24 09:24:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
That notion comes from a man.
2007-10-24 09:23:18 · answer #8 · answered by kim h 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Get a divorce then it will be wrapped so tightly you will melt like cheese
2007-10-24 09:23:41 · answer #9 · answered by lilly l 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's that old "Double Standard" There is no difference....men just think so.
2007-10-24 09:24:29 · answer #10 · answered by Teddy's Mom 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋