my friend has this bf that like totally an *** and he tries to get in her pants and so doesnt care if he does. i try to tell her that he might date rape her and she just wount listen. he allways touches her in places, he lifts up her shirt,starts to put his hands down her pants and their only 14 years old, freshmen in high shcool what should i do??
2007-10-24 09:19:08 · 11 answers · asked by ? 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
If she likes it, then there is nothing you can do.
2007-10-24 09:22:04 · answer #1 · answered by Go Bears! 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Keep talking to her and maybe talk to an adult about it. I had a friend like that and she did end up getting raped. When I tried talking to her about it before it happened she told me that she didn't want her boyfriend to do things but she was afraid that no one would like her if she made him stop. I wish that I would have told an adult and got her some help before it happened. she ended up having to move out of the state and I lost touch with her after two years.
2007-10-24 16:28:06 · answer #2 · answered by Angela J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her point blank if she has any respect for herself, because if she did, she wouldn't allow anybody to touch her, or make such suggestions. She is going to get a reputation for being a tramp, and once he has what he wants , he will tell everyone, and then call her names. If she wants to have a reputation like that, I would say, call me when you clean up your act, because I don't want to be around some one that doesn't treat herself good.
2007-10-24 16:27:24 · answer #3 · answered by LIPPIE 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Listen girl i have moved because of my friends.....If they don't believe you and if they are stuck up and crap then they ain't your true friends !! Trust me you can call some of my friends if ya don't believe me and know i have better friends know that we moved... ( also we needed a bigger house lol ) I am not saying that u should move or anything but like make new friends......do what u want but make the right choice b.c i know i didn't but know i did b.c i have learned from experience
2007-10-24 16:25:04 · answer #4 · answered by Caitlyn C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell an adult! It's better to be safe than sorry.
This guy sounds like a real pervert, and you need to help your friend. I've had some experience with a guy like that, and trust me when I say he's no good.
2007-10-24 16:22:53 · answer #5 · answered by Jaeblade 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your a good friend to be concerned about her but it sounds like she's not ready to listen to you. I'd accept the fact that they are most likely going to continue in this behavior and instead focus on talking to her about safer sex (use a condom, STDs such as HIV can be passed on during oral sex, etc).
2007-10-24 16:26:06 · answer #6 · answered by KatieK 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
truthfully u can only help ur friend by being there and giving her support and help if she needs it. But trust me she will do wat she wants and even if u do go to an adult she might just sneak around with him then and then things can only get worse. S really i know she is your friend and all but a friend can only do so much, and now that u have told her wat she needs to watch out for then there is nothign else u cna do now except be there....
2007-10-24 16:28:16 · answer #7 · answered by grace2way 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She needs to speak to a counsellor or her parents to understand what she is letting him do. You are right she could be a victim of date rape or worse if she refuses his advances. Please encourage your friend to seek help, if she won't then you MUST for her sake.
Good Luck
2007-10-24 16:26:06 · answer #8 · answered by ruth m 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you can't do anything. you tried. she needs to learn what a big mistake she's making. if she gets mad at you when something bad happens then tell her you tried and move on w/ your life. w/ or w/o her.
2007-10-24 16:23:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to a teacher and tell them what is going on. Chances are he has tried this with other girls.
2007-10-24 16:22:04 · answer #10 · answered by .... 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her parents, then tell his parents that he is trying to rape someone he likes. That will stop him. But it could hurt your friendship.
2007-10-24 16:26:18 · answer #11 · answered by Snow 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋