2007-10-24 09:07:42 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
Not today, but when I was in my teens it really bothered me, it made me feel like a non person. I was at a food stand with my brother and his date, I was 15 years old, and the counter guy couldn't stop staring at her, finally he said "You're the most beautiful woman I've ever seen" and went on and on. She really was, and she was as nice as she was beautiful, but it made me feel horrible by comparison. She was gracious about it, the result of having been told that all her life and because she was so kind to everyone...Today I'm too old to feel that way because pretty much all women are more attractive than I am!
2007-10-24 11:30:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I asked this question the other day and someone replied, you should feel equal. Now that I really think about it... I do feel equal I just hope the other women notices I'm as attractive as she is because I'm noticing she's as attractive as me. You should feel at ease and humble. I don't think I feel any differently around women who aren't attractive... or maybe I feel more confident around women who are less attractive. If its about attention sometimes I'll notice women with longer hair (doesn't mean their more attractive) getting more attention. But, society HAS done a great job of associating beauty with the length of your hair... either way I think I'm just as or even more beautiful than most women b/c of my exotic features and brilliant personality.
2007-10-24 09:15:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You always ask questions relating to women's jealousy toward each other...why? You want to know why women are b1ches to each other, why they're jealous of each other, etc. Really, get a grip, this is not a gender issue. It's human nature.
Like any male, if someone of the same gender is more attractive than myself, I feel envious. If she's kind and down-to-earth, then I get past the envy quickly. In any case, I'm secure enough with myself to not dislike her because of her beauty.
2007-10-24 10:27:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your question depends on how secure the woman is about herself, a secure woman can easily give compliments to a very attractive women, like she is pretty, she has a great pair of legs or that blouse looks good on her, but it's not my color, this given that she's confident on the way she looks or/and has achievement/qualities better than beauty.
Some insecure women though can give derogatory comments like well those aren't real.
2007-10-24 09:23:36 · answer #4 · answered by Risa C 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Truthfully, I have felt like the ugly duckling in a pond of swans before. I think it's just human nature. What I find distasteful is how some women will say nasty things about a beautiful woman behind her back like she doesn't have any feelings. She can't help that she's beautiful any more than I can help that I am not.
2007-10-24 09:53:00 · answer #5 · answered by Jennifer C 4 · 5⤊ 0⤋
I don't have an inferiority complex. I've actually never been in a situation that I've been really jealous of another woman; even when she was prettier. It usually just ends up to be a very funny situation. Either how men react to her or the moment she opens her mouth.
2007-10-25 06:27:53 · answer #6 · answered by rasalhague_ophiuchus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fine if the women is secure within herself. All of my female friends are very physically attractive and intelligent women... God bless****
2007-10-24 12:08:40 · answer #7 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't feel any differently. They're just women who happen to be very attractive. Big deal.
2007-10-24 09:31:45 · answer #8 · answered by Rio Madeira 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hmmm..ya know...its never really crossed my mind....i mean im sure..maybe at the time i may have thought something..
but i cannot honestly think that i thought something really mean or hateful...
maybe if i was in a bad mood i may have...
but when im in a bad mood..i hate everyone.
but at the gym i go to the women who work thier are tiny pretty little things...compared to me and my size its like they are the little princesses and im the giant ogre ( they are probably no more than between 5ft and 5ft3 and tiny boned, where as i am 5ft7 and large boned and over weight)
but they are as sweet as can be and very easy to get along with.
and no calling myself a giant ogre type doesnt bother me. i often poke fun at myself...its just how i am.
2007-10-24 10:28:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree. It is not in a womans nature to not feel jealousy over a very attractive woman. They should definately feel equal but its not always how it happens
2007-10-24 09:21:36 · answer #10 · answered by meg_22ky 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋