I don't want you to bow to me or anybody. It's very hard being brutally honest without hurting someone. I can be honest, but not in a "brutal" fashion. Tact in how you go about it the only way that works , & even that is not a walk in the park.
2007-10-24 11:43:55
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answered by The Count 7
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I don't think I am able to be "Brutally Honest" without being hurtful. I may be honest to some people without being hurtful if I am tactful but not "Brutally" so. :o)
2007-10-25 00:01:29
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answered by Anonymous
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♥ i think that it is possible to tell some one the truth, without being hurtful to them intentionally; but i also think that sometimes, no matter how you word it, the truth is going to hurt.
For example, if someone you love very much is behaving in a way that is hurtful to themselves, and they are stubborn and can't see how harmful their behaviour is; You have to be honest with them, and tell them them the truth IF you really love them. But no matter what you say to them, it is going to hurt them.
But there is a difference between belittling someone, and just being candid with them. It's not always beneficial to sugarcoat the truth, sometimes you have to just be as blunt as possible; But i think that you can be blunt and candid, and "brutally honest" without belittling, or insulting someone by ripping them to pieces and making them feel worthless. Even so, Truth be told, .... the harsh reality IS that, sometimes no matter how you phrase your words, the truth hurts. ♥
2007-10-24 09:49:02
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answered by Anonymous
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2016-10-13 22:39:46
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answered by ? 4
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I read someplace that any information you must give someone that may hurt them should be preceded, and followed, by a compliment, or something to make them feel good about themselves. I find this to be the kindest way.
2007-10-24 08:51:22
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answered by RetroGirl 6
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Yea, I think I can. Its going to depend on the person Im being honest with too.*
2007-10-25 02:37:32
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answered by Check this out! 7
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That depends on how "thick skinned" the person you are talking to is. You can be as nice as possible and somepeople will still take it the wrong way.
2007-10-25 01:23:06
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answered by staymay 7
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ummm, not the way it comes out of my mouth! and that my dear is being brutally honest.
2007-10-24 10:14:42
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answered by Anonymous
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One can always try to strive for that but someone is always going to get hurt...it's unfortunate but a part of life...
2007-10-24 17:30:25
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answered by Anonymous
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No not really, the truth hurts no matter how gently a person says it.
2007-10-24 08:17:18
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answered by ͏҉ ßõhrçmrïñsÿ★ 6
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