Most women I meet say they want equality in a relationship. I always tell them I want a housewife. This rarely scares them away.. why? These "tough girls" turn into girly-girls very quicky when I lay down the law.
There is no such thing as an equal 50/50 relationship with equal sharing and careing. Every woman I date I dominate. She does what I want and if she doesn't she gets the boot. Thats it.
2007-10-24 07:53:29 · 47 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
Yes, I'm a Scorpio.. good guess.. but I don't believe in that crap
2007-10-24 08:44:19 · update #1
So that means you're still single? Go figure.
2007-10-24 07:56:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 16⤊ 4⤋
Being "empowered" as you say doesn't necessarily mean they want to be the dominant person in a relationship.
I think that you are getting feminist woman and strong/assertive woman confused.
Maybe the girls that you have come in contact with say these "tough girl" things because they can sense that you're a man with a dominant personality........... and don't want to seem like they are "giving in" so to speak.
If it is that simple for a woman that you are dating to change her views/tune about the person she is, than she was just putting up a facade.
There are relationships that work with each individual contributing 50 %, and its almost ignorant for you to say that no such thing exists.
2007-10-24 08:04:36 · answer #2 · answered by Jae Rae 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey you sound like me. I'm the female version. Let's never meet.
But seriously; if you're the real tough guy tell the other 'tough guys' to stop making us laugh when they try to imitate you. I mean, your fellow advocates you have to blame for the confusion.
Maybe your relationships are just successful and it doesn't have anything to do with you being domineering. If she's happy following commands, she's happy. What can you do? I'd expect a girl to give you the cold shoulder if she doesn't agree.
2007-10-25 06:36:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband is very dominate just like how you described yourself. Every woman he dated, he dominated and controlled and treated like crap. Then he met me and tried that with me. It was a literal power struggle for over ten years. About six years ago we came to an impasse and realized that we were both too dominate to have just one boss. From that point on, we found a way to make decisions together and yes, we DO have an equal 50/50 relationship. We don't try to boss each other any more, because neither one of us will allow someone to control us.
It is obvious to me that you just haven't met a truly dominate woman yet. (well not in person, anyway) ;)
2007-10-24 08:31:07 · answer #4 · answered by Tea 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You are very lucky, u know that......its great to be in a dominating relationship, like mine are, in which when I was in relationships, I was the dominating one. He did everything I said. I haven't been with a dominate male, simply because I would leave him. And another thing is that he cannot out do me. Meaning with work, I have to be the one making more money, as well with other things too. I don't know about the women you meet, but lucky you cause they must not be very determined, but lazy fat breeding housewives who's purpose in life is to serve and depend on men? That's right.
2007-10-24 09:51:14 · answer #5 · answered by motrine2 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
The law of opposites? Why do perfectly nice men date materialistic little divas who sleep around, want their cash, talk down to them, never do housework or cook, hate kids and prefer their friends and shopping (with the guy's money and credit cards) to spending time with him? Some of them are verbally abusive, perfectionist, controlling, demanding and narcissistic. I have never understood this. Why do nice guys marry these women? I have heard stories about women deliberately getting pregnant to trap a guy into marriage by flushing the pill down the toilet while pretending to still take it and some women have insisted this is their right and that since he 'didn't wear a condom, he should have to marry her or else, pay child support'.
2007-10-24 08:08:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
Women date jerks, but they marry the nice guys.
I think it's hilarious that you consider yourself an alpha male. Alpha males are not threatened by strong women. They don't feel the need to control others..., they just have a natural presence that lets people trust them. I wouldn't trust you further than I could throw you.
As to someone wanting to be the person who stays home and taks care of 100% of household responsibilities, in a relationship, there's nothing wrong with that. IF both parties agree to divide up the labor that way, and it's because they Want to do it that way (enjoy it) not because it's expected or required.
2007-10-24 07:59:35 · answer #7 · answered by Krista 4 · 5⤊ 2⤋
(You have to admit that story was too long winded)There never has been a 50/50 deal in relationships; for those who believe so are seriously deluded. Ok I understand the deal; I shut my mouth, do as you tell me to do; only it has to be morally right, no telling me to have sex with other men/women. No telling me to kill someone, no telling me to steal from
anyone/establishment, etc. I am to serve you and you alone,
So are you still on? Oh and by the way there's no need to hit. I'm more than willing, still, if you insist you may find your hand between my teeth.*Also Brad you cannot tell me how to think, no kettle is black jargon. I want to keep my own mind.
Edit Vitamin C: Just exactly what is wrong with sex? I love sex FYI
This is the real me Brad.
2007-10-24 08:52:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
Good luck with your fourth wife, alimony, child support and alcoholism. Obviously you haven't read anything about your Sign or you wouldn't jump to conclusions. I have known 6 or so scorpios, including my mom, my step son and a sloppy drunk who refused to quit. You are probably ADHD. Anti-social and very difficult to get along with, if you don't get your way you hold people hostage til you do. Didn't work for us or the military, both of us threw him out.
2007-10-24 09:07:41 · answer #9 · answered by dtwladyhawk 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Good for you. I think these women are hypocrites. But some are nasty and will dominate you because of their sexuality. Not very empowering to me!
2007-10-24 23:48:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because women want to be taken care of. You sound like a jerk, but you also sound like you provide for women. My husband is the same way, and eveyone asks why I deal with it. I simply tell them because I know that I have what I need. I know he comes off like a jerk, but really he is just trying to take care of me. I am a little different though becuase I would never say that I want a 50/50 relationship because I know that I would be miserable. I want everything taken care of for me. Not sure if that made any sense. Sounds like the women that you have talked to need to decide what they really want. Maybe they are just looking for a free ride.
2007-10-24 08:00:43 · answer #11 · answered by billieschenck 2 · 1⤊ 3⤋