And then you sorta knew (too late) why everybody else avoided them, and you stopped answering their calls, and pretended not to be home when they knocked on your door, and even considered moving or changing jobs just to get away from them?
How long did it take you to shake them, and how did you do it?
2007-10-24 07:44:47 · 18 answers · asked by Spun Up IMMORTAL 2 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Yeah. there was this girl in school that nobody liked, and I felt sorry for her. I didn't really know her because I had never had any classes with her. I befriended her, much to the horror of my other friends, and I started hanging out with her and sitting with her at lunch. I found out pretty quickly why she didn't have any friends. She was clingy and completely obnoxious! I didn't shake her until after graduation! I DID NOT tell her what college I would be attending! Haha!
2007-10-24 07:50:27 · answer #1 · answered by Starr 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Lol. Several times. Which was several times too many.
It took me any where from weeks for some; days for a few;
months for others; and one or two of them I just can't seem to shake for the life of me. They don't catch hints very well. They don't pick up on when you're being completely blunt. If you don't answer the door they just wait outside and stalk you until you're ready to leave the house. So you have to sneak in and out of your own house. They don't comprehend what, " I'm
busy right now" means. Or that, "can't talk right now, I'm running late..." means that you don't have time to hear about their day nor their woes that you've already heard about from them for the umpteenth time verbatum.
You want to just grab them by the neck and begin choking them until their eyes pop out or something, but you never do.
I hope you have much better luck with your 'stalker(s)' than
I've had with mine. Best of luck and God bless. Peace.
2007-10-24 08:10:23 · answer #2 · answered by sylvester m 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My husband used to work at a bar so he's meet all sorts of people. I used to go and "hang out" with him on Sat. night when he worked.. This guy came in he was nice enough but, very odd. At first he seemed nice but, he always had some sort of problems or personal issues etc.. I don't know why but, my husband some how gave him our telephone number and he would call all the time especially when my husband wasn't working. It got really annoying and then he would come to the bar and "hang out" on Sat. night.. Finally, I told my husband we had to get cell phones and get rid of our land line completely since he as well as a few other's were calling non-stop. It got so bad I just never answered the phone. Now we have our own cell phones so he can give HIS number to anyone he wants.. It took about a year or so to shake him/them ! good luck
2007-10-24 07:55:01 · answer #3 · answered by pebblespro 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh, Yes! It took me about 6 mos. to get rid of her after EVERYone, including my mom & bf, told me she was such an loser. I was a teenager at the time, so I didn't need to move or change jobs...i just stopped answering the phone & the door! I felt sorry for her at first; she'd just moved to our naybahood & my bff had just moved to the South. However, I soon figured out why everyone couldn't stand her -- she was a very very stupid & extremely annoying! Eventually she met some loser & became a crackhead (figures).
2007-10-24 07:52:26 · answer #4 · answered by napqueen 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't answer my door when the little old ladies came to visit last week. I will be damned if they didn't come to my OFFICE yesterday. True story. I'm lmao at the "clingy, smothering lump of need" though . . . I am so using that the next time I get mad. Good to see you honey. ♥
2007-10-24 07:56:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh God I did once it was a nightmare!! I even let her stay with me briefly her bf (queer) kicked her out. So I had this gigantic hairy mass of a girl living with me. She was dirty and depressed. When the stench became unbearable I had to move she wasn't going anywhere. She is probably still there glued to the couch and covered in dorito crumbs.
2007-10-24 08:02:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, The best thing to do in this situation; is to remember that they are only trying to help, and then i don't feel quite as smothered.
2016-04-10 02:51:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah once before. Luckily I did move out of state shortly after. So it was a lot easier to ignore her call. Now we just don't talk anymore. So glad I am out of that situation. I just suggest you move or tell them straight up that to leave you the **** alone!
Best of luck!
2007-10-24 07:53:15 · answer #8 · answered by The one who knows 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
In school, I felt sorry for this underclassman. He would always sit by me in the auditorium when ever possible and talk. Later, I started dating a girl and wanted to spend time with her, alone, and he continued to come sit by me/ us and talk and ask questions. Finally, I had to be a little rough and tell him, we needed some space...to be alone!
2007-10-24 07:54:00 · answer #9 · answered by ~ Floridian`` 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
There was someone at my job I become friends with because she seemed lonely. She was kind of fired so I don't have to deal with that situation anymore.
2007-10-24 07:50:05 · answer #10 · answered by SnowLight 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋