What does sexual freedom truely mean to you?

Answer 1

The freedom to ask,
The freedom to accept
The freedom to refuse
The freedom to enjoy with mutual consent
The freedom to explore
The freedom to love
The freedom to lust
The freedom to stay in a relationship
The freedom to leave a relationship
The freedom to have many relationships
or just one

Is just a little bit of what it means to me, and why I love it.

Answer 2

Give yourself time and come to terms with the fact that it'll always be an issue. It's not something you can 'get over', rather something you learn to live with. There is hope though. You need to see a counsellor, talk about the very things that scare you most and address your past, you can't really move on until you do. It's one of the hardest steps to take, but ultimately rewarding and freeing. Good luck.

Answer 3

For me, sexual freedom means the freedom to be "sized up" by "liberated" women who are entitled to their preferences while I myself have internalized a lot of shame and guilt that my own preferences are the result of sexist media images and are degrading and objectifying to women.

Sexual freedom is the freedom to be called "controlling" and "old-fashioned" if I want a committed relationship and "immature", "irresponsible" and a "user" if I don't. It is also the freedom, if I do enter into a committed relationship, to be accused of "taking advantage of her" later if she decides that she was "settling" by being with me and that she "deserves better".

Sexual freedom is the freedom to celebrate women's orgasms and want her to have as many as she wants in all their various permutations, while my own orgasm is something it is my responsibility to hold back lest I be deemed "selfish".

Sexual freedom is the freedom to be critiqued on every aspect of my "performance" by someone who has little or no regard for my enjoyment because she knows that her mere presence is a gift for which I should be grateful, and afterward to "owe" her for the privilege.

EDIT

I don't know about "burned". I need to step back from blaming anyone. People have felt what they've felt and done what they thought best under the circumstances.

I just find that sexuality is just another source of guilt, shame, obligation, uncertainty, and pain, one that I don't need.

Answer 4

Not to be told when or how I want it, This is the scenario, there are three people in a room, one woman a beautiful southeast dark red skinned momasita and two men, one holding a camera and the next talking to the southeast beauty, the conversation is about sex and is follows
1st man to South E female beauty ‘’so you saying Charles do not like seeing any man around when he want to have sex’’
Southeast beauty yes ‘’Charles do not like have men around when he wants a woman, Charles is not into men that way’’
1st man sitting down ‘’I find that hard to believe?””
SE beauty no reply, she cannot find the right things to say, she knows her point to be true but cannot find a quick and snappy repartee.
There are a few seconds a pause of quietness then 2nd man behind the camera says
‘’Okay let’s do it’’ followed by the frame switching to her by herself legs akimbo proceeded by herself masturbating herself until she orgasms loudly, she looks up at the camera she her wet hand to the frame than the female masturbation video end there,
Yes I agree the guy she is speaking of cannot stand the idea or even cope with any man in his sexual frame so as to speak when on sites . He only likes to see and get off on a woman in his frame if he has to voyeur subject to females not wanting to give up the punannani to he or it being made difficult for whatever reason , This Charles fellow , he is not even into having a woman watch him when he is with a woman and dislikes male same sex activity, so seeing any male in his sexual frame just pisses him Off. In my opinion should you need to stroke choke your chicken for whatever reason? you girl has left you high soaked and hot, or your facing female ostracized for whatever reason then there should be a site to use that when you have to let off steam over a woman letting off steam herself that way no man should appear in the or around the frame with her and visa versa, should voyeurism become a desperate choice for whatever reason money, rejection, hate, of blame whatever? ,that way you could just tune into the site and see a woman alone instead of some male around the outer frame or in the frame pissing of your aesthetic enjoyments of her showing fringing herself which every woman you choose to watch.

Answer 5

Like I always say,it's never a good thing to tell someone what another person as already told them so I'm gonna just say that Twilight pretty much briefed it out for me.
FYI, I prefer "one" sexual partner.......(lol).

Answer 6

The freedom to have sex on my own terms, and enjoy it without feeling guilty or nervous. The freedom to not be judged for whatever choice I may make. The freedom to choose from a variety of safe contraceptives. The freedom to own my own uterus.

Answer 7

To me it means that your not forced to ware a device or take medication that would prevent you from ever having sex or getting aroused to want sex.

Or your not constantly watched 24/7 for who your around and are left alone in situations where you would possibly have sex.

Answer 8

Twilight summed up my feelings. He deserves the best answer here.

Gnu Sense. Man--have you been burned, or what?

Answer 9

Carrie and Twilight sum up exactly what I wanted to say.

Answer 10

sexual freedom? doesn't exist.