Does anyone else SUCK at talking to people of the opposite sex trying for that elusive relationship?
2007-10-24 04:11:32 · 13 answers · asked by rcds23 6 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
I mean I can TALK to them I just seem to always have bad luck with this.
2007-10-24 04:18:47 · update #1
Not really the opposite sex is just as interested in talking about all sorts of things just like you are, just be yourself, you don't have to creative or original just be you.. and share your thoughts , concerns, ideas, hobbies, with the opposite sex alot of ppl are just wanting someone to share their feelings, ect.. We all have the same common feelings of being wanting and listened to and to listen and share who we really are with ppl. its human nature...
2007-10-24 04:26:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I have no problem talking to the opposite sex
What do you mean bad luck ?
2007-10-24 04:17:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
people make comments to me each and all of the time while i'm waiting in a checkout line, it would not issue me in any respect, and that i respond in style. If notwithstanding, this "friendly communicate" became into of a doubtful nature that raised my protection hackles, i could respond in a voice loud sufficient to reason a scene and draw interest from bystanders, hoping to embarrass the guy sufficient to make him bypass away.
2016-10-07 12:41:33 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Didn't we talk about this before? Do you remember what I said? Your time is gonna come babe! It may not be today...or tomorrow...or even the next, but it will...and probably when you least expect it! Now listen to your good friend fickle 1...I am older than you and I know about these things!!! LOL *hugs Drewman* You know I love ya! =D
2007-10-24 04:35:56 · answer #4 · answered by F-1 says KISS IT! 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
i can feel for you completely.. its the same on my side of the fence as well.. its easier to talk to someone whom i consider a friend, but someone i have an interest in ..i can't seem to look them in the eye.. .and trust me... i talk and talk and talk.....lol
Try starting a conversation...about ordinary things.. maybe the weather today...or if they are wearing a shirt... with a cool saying on it and you like it.. say something...or start a conversation about music.. trust me everyday topics may be the key.
good luck my friend
2007-10-24 08:21:02 · answer #5 · answered by poet 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Listen to NIF & fickle 1, they know what they are talking about. I am older than you, too & I always had more friends that were guys than girls so...you just got to talk to them like they are your friend, because that is the best way to start :o) and like fickle 1 said it will happen...you are still young, sweets, give it time :o) *BIG HUG*
2007-10-24 06:46:21 · answer #6 · answered by ♫brokenangel♫ 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hi Drew, don't worry babe, they most likely don't notice ,and think you are no comfortable, there's only "you" knows that you are finding it hard, its just your confidence that needs building up, don't read too much into that, it comes with experience, just keep trying it out with "small talk" to anyone, and,everyone you meet- the more you talk- the more confident you will become. trust me on that. Thanks for answers babe. Love Jo xx
2007-10-24 07:28:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I sure do, I do really good in a letter or im, but the face to face thing, i get all tounge tied. the phone is a soso. still get nervouse.
2007-10-24 04:18:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
talk as much as you can; but with caution. decent one.
2007-10-24 07:33:08 · answer #9 · answered by prince47 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I have had plenty of practice..
2007-10-24 07:54:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋