I have just visited a counselor. he said I am 100% normal and there is no sign of gay desires.
But I enjoy spending my time seeing warm & kind guys in the pool.specially in the locker when I may see their penis. iI love the way guys talk, their kiddings and of course their sexual behaviour. I love to see guys having sex with their girlfriends.
When I see a man is shaving his face or body, I feel wonderful.
But I should say i don't have any interests in having gay sexual relations and i find it disgusting, even in my mind. i just want to see hot males showing their penis off. i want to see their muscles and hairy chests. is it normal? tell me whether u have had such experiences.
What should I do to get rid of this?
Help for Haven's sake.
2007-10-24 03:50:41 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Men's Health
You're a prude gay.
2007-10-24 05:19:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
The only person that can knows if you're gay or not is you. You might be gay, or maybe you just long for male bonding. I'm guessing you never had a closeness with your dad or brothers. Maybe you are missing the closeness of a male best friend. You know, I remember wrestling with my dad, brothers and friends. Hugging my dad or brothers is a natural thing for me. Hanging out with my teammates and putting an arm around them or just goofing around is just something that guys do. There's nothing sexual about it, but maybe that's what you've missed out on and are somehow trying to compensate for it.
2007-10-24 11:47:03 · answer #2 · answered by italed 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Sound normal to me, why do you think guys hang out in the locker room or in the gym--- or watch jocks play football or baseball or whatever sport-- to look at other guys. Normal. Check any group of guys that hang out, usually the good looking guy is the leader, and the others hang out and admire him.
2007-10-24 14:54:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
are YOU muscular with a hairy chest?... if not, are you looking at the guys because that's how you WISH you could look?.... stand in front of your mirror and look at YOU.... are you beautiful to you?.... or do you cringe because that's not how your imagination wishes you looked?.... I agree that you may have missed out on some male bonding at an important point in your life.... but also think you are searching for an identity for yourself.... you didn't mention how girls make you feel.... do you want to protect them, avoid them, interact with them on 'their' level?.... have you considered that your gender identity might be mixed up?....
2007-10-24 13:40:46 · answer #4 · answered by meanolmaw 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Look at women. Pull out the things you like about different women.
2007-10-24 10:59:16 · answer #5 · answered by SandraD 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You are a self hating gay....more than likely raised a a crazy christian household! Get over it and enjoy life and don't hate yourself!
2007-10-24 22:09:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋
You're gay if you want to be...I would say, go some place that has some women! Go look at some girl-on-girl porn...
2007-10-24 11:34:04 · answer #7 · answered by Ryan S 2 · 1⤊ 3⤋
you might be gay.i have never had those experiences.
2007-10-24 10:57:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
http://www.freetobeme.com/
http://www.newdirection.ca/
http://www.outpostministries.org
2007-10-25 18:09:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋