am i pregnant?!?

Question

Okay. I’m kind of freaked out, but I’ll keep the story short. My period is 12 days late. For about a little more than the past week my lower back has kind of hurt and my lower stomach area has to, like near my bladder area, in the middle. I guess you could say. My breasts are tender too. This seems to go away sometimes through out the day. My stomach is really bloated and it looks like it too. Last week there was a lot of white-ish sometimes yellowish discharge, but not so much now. I’m still a virgin. But a little over 2 weeks ago I had oral sex and our clothes came off. I was pretty careful not to get it near my area, and I didn’t, but I’m not sure if any semen on near there, like by my hands or anything? But I made sure my hands were whipped off before I touched anywhere near there. I’m pretty sure his hands were clean too. But later it got on my stomach, and dripped downward, but I had pants on by then. So I think it stopped at my pants line. Maybe I'm just freaking out. I’m kind of undergoing a stressful time, and this is always in my mind now, because I think I could be…I also haven’t eaten as much as I have been or probably should. I’ve also been exercising 3 days a week too

I’m 16. I’m just really freaking out. We didn’t do any dry humping or anything. I’m afraid to take a test because it might be positive.

Answer 1

yes

Answer 2

Not by the sound of things, sperm has a hard enough time doing the deed without having to overcome pants as well. Do and see your doctor to be on the safe side, but 2 weeks ago is too early to be showing visibly, so the stomach thing is something else (or maybe just your imagination) if you don't want to see a doctor, get a test kit, they're really easy to use, and will set your mind at rest.

Answer 3

Overreacting certainly you are, you can only fall pregnant through full sexual intercourse, meaning that the guy must have penetrated you and realised his sperm package(for want of better words) inside your vagina. otherwise it's impossible you don't say what age you are but i guess you are very young, if that is all that happened then there is no way you are pregnant (you'll probably be glad to hear) may i suggest that you bring yourself up to date with how EXACTLY babies are made, no offence but you sound like you need to be more informed. If you don't at this time want a child make sure you always use a rubber it's the only protection against pregnancy but more important bodily fluids which are the carriers of std's etc.. be careful sweetheart and wise don't be pressured into anything I'm sure it will all be fine, good luck xx

Answer 4

lol..... Ah, to be this young again. :)

No, you aren't pregnant. There's no way.

The discharge isn't a problem except that I'd be a little worried if it's yellow. Especially with the lower back, stomach pain, and bloating. You could have some type of infection. Talk to your mom if it doesn't get better soon.

As you know though, the bloating and pain can just be part of your period. Definitely keep an eye on the discharge though - if it continues and stays yellow you need to talk to your mom.

Answer 5

I had exactly the same scare the uva week i was in exactly the same situation im still a virgin and i cudnt sleep i was so worried i felt sick in the morning then i went to savers (weridos work there it wont be so embarasing) and got a pregnancy test..no the proper ones like the morning after ones their 99p and i checked and i wasn't normally its just all in the mind...dont worry about it and if this doesnt help i would advise you to buy one because its such a relife if u ent trust me...also a little fact sperm onli lives 4 20 seconds when its came out....Hope this helps =]

Answer 6

Hun relax, most likely you are not pregnant... often times woman feel like they are having symptoms when they are pondering the thought. Go get a prego test and go from there because there is a small percentage that you can be, but if the story you gave us is accurate then you should be ok.
Best of luck with everything.

Answer 7

your freaking out just chill the chances of you being pregnant without penatration are really slim, however there would still be a chance if you were dry humping with underwear on. just chill if what you explain is true I would say, maybe .000001 percent chance. it sounds like the pain your experienceing could be a uti or a yeast infection... maybe just a little crampy from stress or about to get your period

Answer 8

My dear you are not pregnant. Why? Becuase you did oral sex only and you said your still a virgin. Do you know that an egg cell will be fertilized with millions of sperm cells. So, do not worry. Your will not carry a baby yet.
Warning: Do not commit yourself to any premarital sex. It's too early to make a baby. focus on your studies first. You know curiosity kills sometimes! Hope you know what I mean!God Bless!

Answer 9

All these things also occur when you are about to have your period and period cycles do tend to go cuckoo sometimes, especially when you're really stressed (which in your case you really are!). I know this may sound like a no brainer but why don't you just buy a pregnancy test and confirm it?

Answer 10

Take a pregnancy test - you can pick one up at your local chemist but from what you say it sounds unlikely but not impossible.

PS Ignore Rosii - its none of her business what you decide to do IF your are pregnant. Don't be made to feel guilty about any choice you make honey.

PPS think about it the discharge, bloating, etc, it MAY be a sexually transmitted disease. Go to a clinic to get some screening.

USE A CONDOM IN FUTURE!!!!

Answer 11

Stop worrying, worry or stress can sometimes delay periods. If you havent had sex or semen hasnt been near your area you should be fine..if in doubt visit your doctor