why do married men with nice wives and families feel the need to sleep around.... beautiful kids seemingly nice wife not wanting to leave his family ........... just wanting to sleep around please someone let me know so i understand thanks
2007-10-24 01:27:06 · 24 answers · asked by arierose 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Cuz they can't keep their d*ck in their pants and they're pigs. Mine soon-to-be ex husband was. He cheated and got two girls pregnant while we were married while he was stationed 3 hours away. He was living a double life. There are a few good men out there but he sure's hell wasn't one. lol. good luck. Dump that loser.
2007-10-24 01:32:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
I am very sorry this happened to you. This is a question only you can answer. Do you think it is necessary to tell the wives? As well you need to ask yourself why you are telling their wives? To make their wives feel the same miserable pain you feel? Maybe give this some thought. and simply confront these men; give them an opportunity to tell on themselves. Although, this may lead to an entirely different and more painful situation for you. I would give this some serious thought. What you really need to do is talk to your wife and figure out what the two of you are going to do.
2016-04-10 02:11:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Married men cheat for the same reason married women cheat.... they do it for the thrill most of the time. the fact that someone is loving them dearly and sharing a great life in every department exept the sexual one gives the cheater the "great excuse" to cheat. a orgasim last for a few seconds but your family is forever. the fact that no one knows and they are getting away with it is ok. and then when someone finds out they feel bad and want to work it out. why men and WOMEN choose to wreck what they have for a few seconds of a orgasim...beats me.
And nobody says very much about how women are just as much cheaters as men.... the only reason is because a woman will get away with it more times than a man so there for it's never really told about.
2007-10-24 01:58:43 · answer #3 · answered by neverlie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because men who sleep around and are unfaithful to their girlfriends, partners, wives, are nothing but RATS.
Men who are unfaithful never take responsibility for their own poor conduct/behaviour. Rather than admit to themselves that they are rats, they often blame their girlfriends, partners or wives. The simple truth is that some men are so weak that they are unable to keep their trousers zipped up when they come in contact with a member of the opposite sex.
Men who are constantly unfaithful think it is fair game and see nothing wrong in what they are doing, or deliberately choose to turn a blind eye for the sake of a thrill. Such men are looking to see how many knotches they can add to their bed posts. Some men like to brag about how many women they have bedded. And some men, believe it or not, believe that this kind of an attitude towards how they treat women, is what makes them a man. Unfortunately some men never grow up.
If your husband has been unfaithful to you please don't fall for his lies and excuses. No matter what he says, IT IS NOT YOUR FAULT. There is no excuse for being unfaithful. None whatsoever. He will blame you because he doesn't want to blame himself because then that would mean that he would have to take responsibility for his own actions.
You do not have to accept your husband's poor excuses or his poor behaviour. You deserve to be treated with dignity and respect. You deserve the best in life. And you deserve to be happy. If your husband is being unfaithful and it is not the first time then you need to ask yourself some serious questions, one of which should be, "Do I want to stay with a man who claims to love me, yet he sleeps around with other women? And is this really love?" And... you need to be aware of sexually transmitted diseases!!!
Know this... there are some genuinely kind, caring, loving and giving men out there. These men are like diamonds and are literally priceless.
Blessings x
2007-10-24 03:50:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well now that is not such an easy question to answer. Most men cheat because they are not getting what they need out of the relationship that they are in, also these cheating affairs do not really mean anything to them, it is a matter of gratification for them. I have been married for 14 years with lovely kids, I have never cheated on my wife (believe it or not). People have to understand that your spouse/significant other can not/will not meet every need that you have, so you should go in with that in mind.
2007-10-24 01:47:29 · answer #5 · answered by Michael P 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Why does so many people think married men need to cheat? Maybe you got cheated on and it has left you with a bad taste in your mouth. But I can tell you with all honesty that all married men do not feel the need to cheat. I've been married for 10 years, still not cheating. Guess that blows a hole in your theory huh?
2007-10-24 01:37:06 · answer #6 · answered by Jim C 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
you have covered almost all the married men here. but my dear freind the men do sleep with women only and where from the women come. they from among the women available in this world so both are equally responsible. IF the men is cheating iwith his family the woman is cheating with her family and like wise the chain is going on.
WHat i mean to say is women also equally responsible for all these
2007-10-27 23:00:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
boredom , a rush from the new, unappriciated, disrespected,no attention. It goes on and on however, men have the stereotype to be cheaters more than women yet ive read studies that state women cheat for the exact same reason as men.there is really no difference in the two sexes when it comes to cheating.so your question..to be fair should be why do people feel the need to cheat.go to google and type in why men cheat and then type in why do women cheat.it ll explain it more than i can.
2007-10-24 01:53:28 · answer #8 · answered by Sara 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
A guy may love his wife, but we all want variety. It doesn't matter if they are happy or not with their wives. Believe it or not, a guy can be a cheater and still be in love with his wife. Cheating is about sex with other women. When you are with the same woman for years and years you want something new and exciting in the bedroom. A new woman in your life creates that excitement and you get fantastic sex out of it.
2007-10-24 01:38:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Dear Friend. Married men with nice wife and kids are prone to sleep around with some one else. This is because of the fact that men want to change and sleep with other women as they in theitr heart want to get sexual pleasure from other women. Albiet it is very bad and not allowed by families and also by our society, yet they stealthily establish clandestine relationships with other women to get pleasure and sleep with them all night. I am very much against this behaviour.
2007-10-24 01:35:41 · answer #10 · answered by ? 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋