Before, she always would touch all her friends boobs and poke them and giggle. She once stuck her hand down my pants from the back and would giggle then. I got really mad at her. Once she was over at my house and i was sleeping. My sister and my sister's friend told me that she pulled up my pj pants and undies and looked at my privates and giggled. After they told me this, i refused to talk to her. She would also touch my little sister and my friend. She also once grabbed my friends crotch.
We talked behid her back about her and the word got out. After we all called her a lesbiean, she had a meltdown and started crying. She denied she was one and that she ever did it.
Now, she kinda looks at girls weird. She looks at their boobs and down thier shirts. When i came over to her house, she was standing behind me with her hands on my hips and it freaked me out. She admited that she did all that stuff but said that she didnt know why.
Do you think that she is still a lesbian?
2007-10-24 00:29:04 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Maybe, but how old is she? If she if in her teens or relatively young then maybe she doesn't know her sexuality or is confused a litte. She could also be bisexual, but just tell her what she does is uncomfortable, don't talk to others about it, just warn her when she does something that makes you uncomfortable. If she does turn out to be lesbian then do not freak out, it is her choice and everyone is different, but being lesbian doesnt give her an excuse to do what she is doing.
If a straight guy was doing that you would also be concerned right? but probably less freaked out? You don't have to be really freaked out, just like girls like guys in non-sexual ways, girls also can too, especially if they think of you as like a sister or something.
so just give her some space to figure herself out, don't use it against her, just explain to her that you are here to help her if she's confused and that you won't judge and whatever turns out, turns out.
Good luck
2007-10-24 00:37:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You didn't say how old you all are. She may be one or may not be one and even she doesn't know yet. Imagine finding out that you are attracted to the same sex as you knowing you won't be accepted. I think this girl is in a very scary situation until she realizes where she fits in. She can lie and try to be someone she's not or she can be who she really is, and most likely lose some of the friends she has now. I do think she needs to be told how uncomfortable it makes all of you when she touches without permission. Don't put her down for it but make it clear that it bothers you, your sister, and friends. There is much information on the internet about gay and lesbian groups that may be able to help your friend see how to handle her behavior right now. I do hope she finds where she fits.
2007-10-24 07:39:47 · answer #2 · answered by Pat K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all my question is was she a lesbian before? and if so then more than likely she still has those lesbian tendencies, whether u r male or female once you have tried it and have decided if u like it or not it is hard to break off, and alot of people r uncertain about their sex and even embarrass, they live in denial to the point that they will camoflauge their relationships just so they wont have the critizcism.
2007-10-24 07:47:52 · answer #3 · answered by cicilangham 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know if she is a lesbian. However, she needs to learn about boundaries. Some things you don't do without the other person's permission. You don't say how old you are, but you shouldn't let nobody touch you (male or female) without your permission.
2007-10-24 07:43:34 · answer #4 · answered by Daddy Big Dawg 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe, maybe not. Perhaps she's bi. Nothing wrong with that. It's a little weird that she would go to all the trouble though. Lots of girls would probably experiment with her if she just asked.
2007-10-24 07:33:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
a comparative dimensional analysis and comparison of limbs and organs is not a indication of lesbianism.
She may analysis if the good b o o bs are real or not
These are hrnless act . do not read too much in to it
2007-10-24 07:36:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a man I must say it... that is the hottest question ever posted/asked in the history of mankind... very nice story telling.... As for if she is or isnt... only your friend (the on in question) knows for sure, or any girl she's slept with.....
If I get banned for this answer, please know i tried to use restaint in my answer but... COMMON! :)
-Joe
2007-10-24 07:37:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
From everything you have stated your friend is surely a lesbian
2007-10-24 08:02:22 · answer #8 · answered by tara w 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She may be questioning her sexual orientation. If she is, and she is a good friend, accept it. You don't have to be one, just to be her friend.
2007-10-24 07:33:44 · answer #9 · answered by Beau R 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shes probably just curious... dont judge her right away, coz i know you wouldnt want to be called a fag without any proof, right?
2007-10-24 07:51:14 · answer #10 · answered by blitzer315 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋