should i feel bad or good bout myself???????????

Question

THIS GUY SAID THE WORST THING TO ME HE SAID YOUR A GIRL ANY STRIAGHT GUY WILL GO GAY OVER AND I FELT REALLY BAD FOR THE WHOLE DAY NOW IM CONFUSED BECAUSE SOME PEOLPLE TELL ME IM BEAUTIFUL AND I SHOULD BE AMODEL AND OTHERS SAY IM UGLY SO WHAT SHOULD I FEEL ABOUT MYSELF AND NO IM NOT PUTTING A PIC OF MYSELF

Answer 1

DONT LET THAT ***** TEAR YOU DOWN YOU PROBABLY ARE PRETTY SO HOLD YOUR HEAD UP HIGH **** HIM DONT LISTEN TO HIM

Answer 2

How you feel about yourself should not come only from what people think about you. There are things that make you just that you! It is easier for us as humans to believe the ugly things people say about us rather than the good. If someone tells you you're beautiful believe them and remember that when people do tell you things like you're a girl any straight guy would go gay over because chances are that he is so scared by your beauty that he feels obligated to say that. Also remember true beauty if inside out not outside in.

Answer 3

oh wow that is really mean well guess what he is ugly real ugly and he has to live with the shame of being mean to someone so im sure that noone will find him remotely attractive if they found out what he said to you . honestly i think i have felt the way you do because some people say im ugly others say im beautiful and some say im ok looking its all because people have different taste . i mean come on at least everyone has had to be called ugly at least one point in their lives and even i have not just once a lot of times its because people are so shallow and superficial that they call people ugly just because they didnt come up to their standards as what they think is beautiful. and you know how some people like to eat hamburgers and vegetarians dont well thats the same thing with what people think is ugly and what others think is beautiful .

Answer 4

have you ever heard the expression"one mans meat is yet another mans poison" it ability what's divine to one is repugnant to a diverse so do not sweat it, if lots of the folk who propose something on your life say your appealing and one person who won't such as you as someone and has have been given you pegged as ineffective knew in basic terms what to declare to take you down a peg and boy did it artwork! so get issues into share if he's not your chum so what one or 2 real friends are greater valuable than an entire flotilla of groupies who scarper on the 1st sign of a blemish, do you somewhat think of it important that all and sundry loves you by using fact in case you do then you somewhat would be extremely disillusioned with life cos no ones that generally used and who should be that shallow so count huge form your reward stop residing on the piffeling and keep your hectic for some thing important like ill wellbeing in a chum or loss of a few thing irreplaceable.

Answer 5

Why do you care what people say? The only opinion that matters is yours. If you don't like yourself, then why would you expect others to? Feel good about yourself. Life is too short to be worried about this nonsense. Plus whether you're gorgeous or not, you're "stuck" with who you are. Make the best out of it and just live life to the fullest. You'll be a much happier person.

Answer 6

Ok first this guy probably wanted to get with you and you turned him down so he said something bad to make you feel like he did. If this was not the case my answer would be the same. Don't let other people influence your view of yourself. Only you know exactly what you are all about. Next time you see this walking talking rectum tell him that guys like him create lesbians everyday and you wouldnt touch him with a ten foot pole if he were the last guy on earth.

Answer 7

Nasty, ignorant people say mean things just to hurt you. Look in the mirror and use your common sense and your own eyes. Never, Never, Never let someone else decide your worth.
p.s. That gut that said that is a moron anyway. No one "turns gay." You are or you aren't, and the people around you have nothing to do with it. Ignore jerks like him and just be the best person you can be (He obviously never learned this lesson!!!) Best of luck to you!!!
p.p.s. I've never known of any friend that tells you you look like a model if you don't. Maybe the guy who was nasty to you is just jealous because he can't have you!! Chin up pretty girl. IGNORE HIM!!

Answer 8

I know it's hard, but ignore it. Don't let this bother you. This guy wanted to upset you, and he won. Besides, there are worse things he could have said to you. There's more to people than just how they look. The way someone looks doesn't magically make people come out of the closet. Also, this guy probably isn't the best looking guy in the world. Nobody's perfect.

Answer 9

In the greater scheme of things, what anybody thinks of you doesn't matter. Especially somebody so bitter and insensitive. The only people that matter are the people you love and respect and who love and respect you back. Everyone else's opinion of you means nothing. He's obviously an ugly person, and look how it manifests itself. By trying to bring you down. Don't even dignify it by worrying about it.

Answer 10

I would tell you to feel good, but I don't know you. Maybe he's a jerk, or maybe it goes deeper than your skin. His comment sounds to me like an assessment of your personality rather than physical...

Feeling bad about yourself never acheives anything, but it is never a bad idea to self reflect and improve your character.

Like I said, maybe he's a jerk, or maybe you need to be HONEST with yourself and see if there is room for improvement. THAT is the way to be SURE that you never get down on yourself.

Control the things that you can control, & learn to deal with that which you cannot.

If it was a physical observation, then HE IS A JERK!

If hes just a jerk, thats out of your control.

Answer 11

Be happy with who you are...I think you take insults way too seriously. Who gives a flying **** about what that one guy thinks? And also, don't let people telling you how beautiful you are go to your head. No offense, but you sound a little conceited to me. (But who cares what I think anyway?)

You know who and what you are. You aren't a word, and you shouldn't care if you're defined like one in some random person's dictionary. Life is about living, not about looking good.