He says he loves me but I don't really feel the commitment. I think I can get him to stick around for a kid. So I was wondering how many pin holes should I put in the condom to ensure that I get pregnant? And about how long after I go off the pill should I be able to do it? I threw away the rest of my pack tonight.
2007-10-23 16:06:56 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
that's a good idea gumby, ihadn't thought of that...
2007-10-23 16:15:35 · update #1
What's wrong with you? Are you sick? If I was your boyfriend and I found out I would really be mad. I would stick around and marry you and raise the kid but if I ever found out......
So if I were you I would make sure that he doesn't find out. Put some sleeping pills in his drink to make sure he passes out afterwards. Then destroy all the evidence, including the turkey baster after you are done. Hey you know condoms are only reliable a certain percentage of the time so you can always say that it must have been one of those times. Good luck, can I come to the wedding?
2007-10-23 17:02:11 · answer #1 · answered by going postal 7 · 2⤊ 3⤋
Are you really being serious??? I don't see how you could be... You really think that you can trap a man by getting pregnant??? You know all that is going to happen is you are going to end up a single parent and your life will be flipped around like you wouldn't believe. You will regret the day you ever even thought about pulling something like this. How dare you bring a baby into this world in that kind of enviornment?? Ya know it is people like you that can just pull some stupid stunt and wind up pregnant, where my husband and I have spent thousands of dollars and had surgery's and done Invitro several times to try to get pregnant. And we still can't concieve, this month will be our fourth attempt! I just can't believe how immature people like you can have children, it is just not right!
2007-10-23 16:40:21 · answer #2 · answered by thinkpeace 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Are you serious?! That's just dumb...not only is it bad for you not to have the father around after he leaves you for deceiving you but it's bad for him having to be stuck with you because of this child atleast for the next 18 years and bad for the child to know it was conceived out of deception and was not wanted by the father. Talk to your man, tell him how you feel be honest. A baby is a major decision that needs to be agreed upon together!! I wanted a baby for almost a year before I finally talked to my boyfriend because he told me he didn't think he wanted any more kids (he has kids from a previous relationship) but after we talked we decided TOGETHER that we were ready TTC! Be mature and responsibile! This is not a decision that only affects you!
2007-10-23 16:28:49 · answer #3 · answered by Jamie 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
First off you need to seek help. Sounds like the kind of guy that will run as far as he can from you if you end up pregnant. Not really sure what you are thinking or if you are thinking at all. You must be young and confused.
2007-10-23 16:12:42 · answer #4 · answered by copswife93 4 · 5⤊ 0⤋
No. No, no, no. Getting pregnant on the sly will not strengthen a relationship. Don't be stupid. You're talking about creating a life. You should not use a baby as a tool to keep a man around.
2007-10-23 16:12:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 9⤊ 0⤋
oh hunny please don't assume that you may think that .but most of the time the men do not change. you two need to work out your problems now before you even think about getting pregnant! what will you do if he doesn't stick around and you are stuck with a little one ? having children is not cheap what so ever and its 10 times harder as a single mom.please please do not do this it is very irresponsible.
2007-10-23 16:12:09 · answer #6 · answered by Heidi 3 · 6⤊ 0⤋
READ THIS!
READ THIS!
If he's not committed to you now, why would he be committed to you later? He will leave you pregnant. How will you support a child on your own?
Leave him for someone better but first work on yourself. It sounds like you have some abandonment issues.
2007-10-23 16:20:53 · answer #7 · answered by Due March 9th, 2010 5 · 6⤊ 0⤋
I'd say about 18. One for each year of this poor kid's life that he has to spend being cared for by an immature, desperate bored *** chick with no morals. Yeah, 18 should do it.
2007-10-23 16:14:23 · answer #8 · answered by Bella H 2 · 9⤊ 0⤋
really? you want to trap a man? thats not cool, thats not fair to a baby because if there is no commitment now, why would it be any different. he would resent you and the baby. lies always come back to bite you. is it really fair to a baby to throw him/her into a relationship like that? please think about it.
2007-10-23 16:11:42 · answer #9 · answered by mom of 4 boys 5 · 9⤊ 0⤋
WHY would you want to do that if you are NOT sure...don't do it...if it doesn't work out for you too...YOU are the one that will have to go through this alone...
DON'T DO IT.!!!
PRINCESS:
WHATS WRONG WITH YOU?
2007-10-23 16:14:17 · answer #10 · answered by Kerilyn 7 · 7⤊ 0⤋