i really started liking him and i thought he felt the same way. he made me feel special and wanted (as retarted as that sounds). but then all of a sudden he said "just so you know when we hook up....thats it." so basically he just used me. i feel so stupid and worst of all i feel sort of lonely. im not quite sure where to go because i still have feelings for this guy.
2007-10-23 16:04:06 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
I'm sorry you had to go through this, Chelsea. I'm not sure how old you are, but unfortunately, we ALL have made stupid errors in judgment, and I hope you're able to learn from it.
Even though it's one of the most difficult things in the world to get over someone you have feelings for that doesn't feel the same way, it will make you stronger in the end. No boy/man is worth your tears and heartache. And if he is, he won't make you cry.
2007-10-23 16:09:29 · answer #1 · answered by Andrea 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel, well not exactly but ive been in almost the same situation b/f, but really it just takes time, I really liked this guy b/c he made me feel special and wanted, but then my friends told me i should stay away b/c he was a player, I didnt listen and i found out the hard way (saw it for myself), I still have feelings for him but believe me u shouldnt get near this guy he will use you and throw you away like a toy, and you'll be hurt worse than u r now, Take care of yourslef try to avoid him and his kind! I hope this helps!!!
2007-10-23 16:11:53 · answer #2 · answered by DixieChic'07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do not need a guy like that. What he did was low! You are so much better than that!! Be strong, I know how that feels, being used. It sucks. But you have to move past it and learn from it. It really sucks what he did. Keep a heads up on him, don't fall for his lines, he'll just use you over and over otherwise. Remember, You are way better and more worth while then he will ever be!!!!!
2007-10-23 16:08:51 · answer #3 · answered by fordoffroad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you hook up with him before he said that? If so, he's a jerk, and he's obviously not worth it. Also, you should never hook up with a guy, especially if you want a relationship with him. Putting out right away will cause him to view you in one way only. Thirdly, given that you posted this in the adolescent category, you should NOT be putting out at all. You'll regret it.
If you hooked up after he told you that, you reap what you sow. Sleeping with somebody who tells you they just want to screw you and dump you is incredibly retarded and it shows a huge lack of self-esteem, which is very unattractive. You need to respect yourself a lot more.
2007-10-23 16:08:46 · answer #4 · answered by blatantlydisontent 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Babe! Listen, dont' worry about it. We all feel small at one time in our lives. If it is going to make you feel better. I really liked this guy, and we had sex, after we had sex, he borrowed money so he can buy gas to take me home. How is that compared to yours! I was young and naived! That was very humiliating in my part. I did enjoy our night together!
We all going screw up one way or the other! We are not perfect.
2007-10-23 16:11:53 · answer #5 · answered by heavenlyours2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's normal to be stuck on a guy for a girl. You've just got to move on. You don't need a guy like that in your life who's going to use you. It's okay to like him still just don't go back out with him, it's not good.
Sorry if you don't understand my answer. It sounds good in my mind, but may not click with others.
2007-10-23 16:07:05 · answer #6 · answered by Emily 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to move on. Sounds like this guy just dont care about your feelings anymore. He definitely doesnt deserve your attention. Dont waste your time. There are better and more deserving guys out there waiting for you.
2007-10-23 16:10:08 · answer #7 · answered by Tina 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im a man and please trust me when I say that he wasnt worth it and maybe he used you? Just be smart and alittle more careful next time. Now some men/boys will do or say anything to get what they want and not realizing that they are hurting someone special..... bottom line is be careful next time good luck in th future
2007-10-23 16:09:21 · answer #8 · answered by eric s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I promise you that the feelings will eventually subside but they will take longer if you don't get out there and get over him sorry to be so blunt but that is in my opinion the best way
sincerely, Kevin
2007-10-23 16:12:43 · answer #9 · answered by Kevin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
walk over to the nearest door and hit yourself in the head a few times. You got played learn from this.
2007-10-23 16:08:55 · answer #10 · answered by redd headd 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋