Would someone please explain to me why I'm having such a hard time finding a good woman whose willing to make a commitment with me? Serious replies only, please. Thank you.
2007-10-23 15:28:56 · 5 answers · asked by Mike M. 7 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
well I dunno mike .... just be patient and possibly go out more ... how bout something like concerts .. an art show .. a biker rally? ; ) i think maybe alot of gals are way to stuck on themselves .. to dependent on material things to give the nice guys a chance. alotta girls will die for the guy that treats them like poo poo and not give the guy that would treat them nice the time of day! they go for looks an not whats within. they like the bad boy image and continually end up with someone that treats them like garbage. looks are nice ... but they don't matter much when ya get old .. in the end i'd much rather fall in love with the ordinary average guy that maybe isn't the best lookin' but has a heart of gold! someone i can talk an relate to .. cause when ya are old and wrinkly i think thats gonna matter awhole lot more .... plus i think we'd have lots to talk bout ... like how much bigger his boobs are than mine .. then! lol ; )
2007-10-25 12:18:25 · answer #1 · answered by Ding Bat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ah, the question of the ages! Probably because there are so few good ones left! Many of the ones who started out good have been ruined by life, or have been snatched up already.
They say there is someone for everyone, but you need to get out in the world where they can find you! It's true I stumbled across my current guy online (not the personals!), but that isn't everything I'd hoped for, either.
I lost my someone special, but the 7½ wonderful years we shared has made every tear worthwhile.
Go to places where you might meet women, and keep the faith. When you least expect it, she will pop into your life. God has a plan for you, you just need to listen. Asking Him to help you find the woman that's meant for you can't hurt, either!
2007-10-24 17:56:57 · answer #2 · answered by baymast13 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're going to have to give a little more info than that. Personally, what I look for in a guy is someone who isn't afraid to show affection, who wants me involved in his life, good work ethic (note: big income doesn't matter), and shows me that he appreciates me. Think about how you come across to people, and don't jump into anything too quick.
2007-10-23 15:34:06 · answer #3 · answered by Memphis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on what YOU are putting out there for them to meet? Are you being yourself? COMMITMENT? Are you rushing them? Or is this all about not being able to find a good woman????
2007-10-23 15:41:02 · answer #4 · answered by missellie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you ask them why they are not willing to commit? start with that.
2007-10-23 15:40:02 · answer #5 · answered by *¤Little Mimi¤* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋