okay so i've been dating this guy for about a month and theres this girl that really slutty and fakey and she will not leave my boyfriend alone! i walked into his spanish class once because i had to give the teacher a note and she was sitting on his lap!?! he was trying to push her off but it didnt work. shes really clingy to him and i hate it! I'm not jealous of her she just annoys me! and well today we were walking to go to lunch and i forgot something in my locker and him and "clingy girl" walked back to my locker and she kissed him on the cheek?! RIGHT IN FRONT OF ME! he went insane on her, but my question is
2007-10-23 13:39:37 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
she posted a picture on myspace that said "this is for you _____" (my bf's name) and did a pose that he does a lot?
2007-10-23 13:49:17 · update #1
haha she does live down the street fighting is an option lol
2007-10-23 13:52:48 · update #2
He needs to tell her in front of a group of other kids your age, that he wants her to leave him alone...that he has a girlfriend, and he is NOT interested in her.
What teenage girl wants to be told this in front of others? Normally if a guy does this to a girl in front of other people, she will back off. Alot of the time, she will be embarrassed and tell him she doesn't know what he is talking about, she doesn't like him! Then she may really dislike him, for embarrassing her in public, and stay as far away as she can.
If he won't do it, then you will know that he really likes the attention that she gives him. And it may be better to let her have him.
2007-10-23 16:19:21 · answer #1 · answered by Lorie N 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well if you were to take my approach it could mean a few things.
I would maybe get pissed off and have a hard time thinking strait. I would sulk for a little while and then bit by bit little evil ideas would pass though my head about how I'm gonna show this person who is boss. I might pass the idea by a few trusted friends or to an online forum. Build up my idea. And then start doing a number of things that could range from the following:
1. Fighting - just beating the crap out of my adversary
2. Talk and then fight
3. Microterrorism - Hate mail, rotten eggs, plastic wrapping car, TP, rearranging stuff in their yard in the dark of night.
4. Being a little more obnoxious - Dry ice bombs on the porch (or inside a mail box), fire crackers, bottle rockets, pouring rubbing achohol in the street and writing a messege and setting it on fire (yes gasoline, desiel, and other things work too), Playing loud music.
5. Destructiveness - Making therimite, putting sugar in the gas tank, touch explosives on their locker (google NI3 for recipe), setting the lawn on fire, stuffing a potato up a exhaust pipe of a car.
6. Just telling the person plainly that your not going to put up with it anymore.
hhhmmm I'm sorta off track I think. You have enough bad ideas now.
Just remember most of the stuff listed above should be conducted under the cover of darkness.
Why do the girls always want the guys that are taken?
That crap never happens to me....
Well it does sometimes...always by freaky girls though.
2007-10-23 23:00:50 · answer #2 · answered by We Walk Aløne 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that he's your boyfriend. Get your boyfriend to tell her that he doesn't want her doing this stuff, he doesn't want to be bothered by her anymore, and his life would be a whole lot eaiser if she left him alone because he's going out with you. Have your boyfriend say that they can be friends, but nothing else. That he won't cheat on you, and he won't dump you for her. You have to be honest, even if it does take being a little mean.
2007-10-23 20:43:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well i had a similar situation but my boyfriend played in -_-
obviously (?) he doesnt want her attention and maybe if your lucky she'll back out if she notices hes not interested.
And im sorry to say, slutty clingy girls (like most the girls i know) stay that way forever, and their real parasites.
If hes gonna let it continue and not take drastic measures, i'd say lose him. is it really worth all the stress over that girl thats all over him?
its like a bad deal, if you go out with him, she automatically is included.
im sorry, it seems thats a pretty pesky situation :[[
2007-10-23 20:48:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend needs to be the one to tell her to back off. He needs to just come out and tell her not to sit on him, or kiss him on the cheek or otherwise. It seems he may be enjoying the attention a bit.
2007-10-23 20:56:48 · answer #5 · answered by Zyggy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her to get the freak out of yer life.
she was sitting in his LAP?
thats a little too much.
talk to yer bf, let him know what you think.
tell him to try to HINT that he's not intrested, and maybe she'll get the message.
and i agree with the chick above me.
make out with him like right inf ront of her.haaarrrd.
lol.
=]
2007-10-23 22:16:23 · answer #6 · answered by oh. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know it mite sound strange but if shes doing it against his will and he doesnt like it you should tell him to report it. guys can be victims of sexual harassment too.
but if you dont want to go to that extreme threatn her.
tell her to back the F up or get Fd up.
<33
2007-10-23 20:45:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
well if that was me i would have punched her all ready but...
just tell her thats my boyfriend you can take your sluty hands and find some other guy to be all up on
and if that don't work cuss her out and fight her
2007-10-23 20:50:38 · answer #8 · answered by Danielle 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell ur boyfriend to NOT give her ANY atention. She will get mad and go after some other guy.
2007-10-23 20:44:30 · answer #9 · answered by Chocogal 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Wow, you have a great boyfriend. Just ignore her, perhaps counseling.
2007-10-23 20:57:24 · answer #10 · answered by The Animal Psychiatrist♬♪ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋