hes a senior and hes really cute and I'm a freshman. like idno how my mom would react and everyone else I dont think its that bad but other people might. were just friends for now but I could see it as something more&&i think he can too.
2007-10-23 13:38:56 · 12 answers · asked by JennJenn 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
yeah but hes so cute and nice to me.
I'd love to go out with him but what's the age rules in nj like three years apart can't consent?idno
2007-10-23 13:45:30 · update #1
I'm not expecting to get married just a fling or whatever.
maybe six months tops or maybe more if he wants idno.
2007-10-23 13:47:18 · update #2
yeah I would, but aren't I only jailbait if I say no during sex or turn him in?
2007-10-23 13:49:05 · update #3
anything we did I would consent to like I really like him&&wouldnt be pressured.
2007-10-23 13:51:45 · update #4
no they like him too but idno maybe its just one of those school crushes but hes such an awesome person.
2007-10-23 13:58:21 · update #5
I am a guy that is almost 18 and I have a friend who is 14. she and I like hanging out and doing things together, but we would NEVER do any thing. even have agreed to not hold hands so that we don't have any PC (physical contact) we do not want to fall down that road. sure we are great friends. but we know our limits.
2007-10-23 15:22:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Listen shorty. u two at different stages in life. Don't get caught up. Mentally he's at another level. He'll graduate and do his thing, get a job and stuff and u'll be a junior getting ready for ur first prom. If it's meant to happen it will. U know they say if u love it, let it go. And you are not even at the age where u can make those permanant decisions. When I was 14 I didn't know my butt from a hole in the ground. I'm only 24, High School was only 5 years ago for me. I been there with girls. Breathe easy, don't rush. U don't want him caught up on some MSNBC How to catch a predator rap. chill out see whare it goes, keep dem grades up too. Worrying about dudes...lol. Sorry. Stay up Peace
2007-10-23 18:15:05 · answer #2 · answered by Christopher R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
14 and 15 going is fine, yes. 17 and 18 is fine, too. Long distance? No. It will be good but it wont last. Snjoy it while you can, though.
2016-05-25 07:13:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your mom consents to it, MAYBE..
If I were you I would wait and continue to stay friends with him, and maybe after you graduate, you go to college and he's in college, you guys can start a relationship..
I was 16 when I met my husband, he was 20.. By then tho I was already graduated from HS, ..(GED) I had consent from my mother to date him. Since he's almost 18, I would definably get consent from my mother and father actually..
To be honest I actually dated a guy when I was 14 who was 17..had consent from my mom but not dad... he called police on him as soon as he turned 18 lol, luckily we were already broken up by then..
Anyway, yea...talk to your mom ...better to get her reaction before you actually start dating.(if you really think it's a good idea, I personally think my first idea is better =)
2007-10-23 13:46:50 · answer #4 · answered by justplainsweet83 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't do it hunny, he's a lot more experienced and he can pressure you into doing something you wouldn't do. And anyway he'll be going to college, and you'll be a sophomore. Trust me, there's more guys out there. I'm a sophomore, so yea I've been there. And your mom probably would say the same thing.
2007-10-23 13:47:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
as soon as he turns eighteen... your jailbait and cant do anything but hold hands legally.... so yeah... not the best idea but it can happen.... I did it, I went out with a junior in 8th grade, I loved him to death.... I know who married people 10 years older then them
2007-10-23 13:43:44 · answer #6 · answered by Secret 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"NO" It is not "almost" all right. With him being almost 18.
He will be charged with "statutory rape," if your plan is to have
sex. For a 14 year old, Why does everything have to be "cute"
After bragging about having sex with a virgin, he will move on
to another, so don't be "naive" and tell him to pick on some-
one his own age, or have they, all turned him down. <}:-})
2007-10-23 13:55:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, I suppose it's okay, but it's really up to you and your mom. They'res not much age difference, so it's okay, but are you really comfortable doing this?
2007-10-23 14:31:12 · answer #8 · answered by Pets are the best! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NEVER....
remember he'll go off to college and then into a career and you'll be that little girl he messed around with back in the day.
2007-10-23 13:43:39 · answer #9 · answered by in COGNITO * 4 · 5⤊ 1⤋
Listen kid, as cute as this senior may be, (and I'm sure he is), he's probably interested in girls his own age. I know you may think he likes you, but love can be misleading.
2007-10-23 13:59:32 · answer #10 · answered by The Animal Psychiatrist♬♪ 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋