She's not mad, she's hurt that you think she embarasses you. Let her know you are sorry, that you were joking and you know it's not funny, and that she does not embarass you.
Treasure your mom always, you only get one and when you say things that hurt her, you can never take those words back. Think before you speak.
2007-10-23 13:25:34
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answered by Anonymous
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Maybe she isn't mad, but more hurt that you told her that she would embarrass you. You may have told her you were kidding, but did you say you were sorry for saying what you did? Try that, tell her that you didn't mean to hurt her feelings or make her mad, and that you would really like her to come in and watch. Let her know that you want her there, that could make her feel better about it.
2007-10-23 13:25:31
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answered by Zyggy 7
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Whether you want to admit it or not everyone loves their mom. Everyone at one point in their lives says stuff they don't mean and unfortunately learn the consequences. My mom and i did not get along during my high school days. I was a good kid....yes i am an adult now and can say this. I didn't do drugs, didn't drink, home at curfew....the whole bit. Senior week in high school i went out with some friends, which she and my dad knew about, and had a great time. My last chance to spend time with my friends cuz we will all would be going off to college. When i came home that night she said i never told her that i was going out and said she was kicking me out of the house. I never understood why....i just packed my bags and went to my aunts house. I figured I would let her figure things out. The next day my dad calls me at my aunt looking for me and yells at me cuz he didn't know where i was. I said,"Dad, Mom kicked me out." He had no clue. He was pretty angry. I planned on moving in with my aunt for college anyway so things ended up working out. Just a little sooner than I had planned. I didn't talk to my mom for over a year after that. And let me just say that it was by far the most painful time in my life. I didn't have my mom by my side. I didn't realize how hard life was without my mom until she was actually gone. I know its cheesy when someone says you don't appreciate something until its gone...well its true. A mom spends years of her life raising you and busting her butt to make sure you suceed in life. All she wants is a little appreciation or an occasional....thanks for everything mom. My mom and I are close now. She eventually worked out her problems and my life is on track. With my mom in it. If i remember correctly you are also the one that was asking if you could married without your parents finding out about it. Sorry if this isn't you. But reguardless, I think it seems like you need to open up with your mom a little more. I've learned in my days, what you don't tell them they will eventually find out and be more angery and disappointed than if you told them. Spear yourself the hurt and embarrassment. Talk to your mom and just ask her how she feels. If you don't think you can talk to her write her a letter. I have used this method many times. Its easier for me and prevents fights or harsh words being said. She loves you and you love her....let her hear it. Good luck.....have fun at practice with your mom.
2007-10-23 14:38:48
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answered by Anonymous
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Family is first and when you have kids i hope they dont say that to you...why is it that we think our parents embarres us...
ok lovey, your mum obviously got hurt like any human would, just make it up to her get her some flowers and apologise like you lovingly mean it...poor mama kiss her and cuddle her too - and thank her for caring
Shes your mama, shell come right
2007-10-23 13:26:53
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answered by Anonymous
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Sometimes parents just need told when to back off.
2007-10-23 13:27:14
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answered by in COGNITO * 4
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Do you mean embarrasses? LOL
2007-10-23 13:25:00
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answered by Anonymous
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