I just don't know how to overcome it....i've west as far as leaving the building but not even that helps because i'm still thinking about it so i end up sheding tears anyway...what can i do?
2007-10-23 12:30:58 · 10 answers · asked by slavka123 2 in Pets ➔ Other - Pets
Why would you want to not cry. It is a very sad situation for you and the owner. When my cat was put to sleep after a long illness that we all fought I had seen tear's in my vet's eye's. But I would have been hurt had I not. She was her vet for 4 months while we dealt with her illness. My sister even came over the night we had to put her down. After my vet helped me put her in her blanket and carried her away to the van. My baby was put to sleep at home, then sent to be cremated. I will always remember my vet she was a big part of my cat's care and helped me every step of the way. I still to this day keep my baby close to my heart and remember my vet well. It is a part of life and would be heartless of you not to show emotion.
2007-10-23 12:39:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i really don't know what to say to that because death is a really hard thing to overcome if i was a vet assist then i would cry my eyes out when i saw that happen. even though it's a very sad thing there really is no way to tell you self not to be sad unless you tell a joke and in that situation it's really not the time. but if i was in you position i would cry even if people are watching.
2007-10-23 20:27:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I went through the same thing, it never gets easire. Until you realize espically if the pet is in per pain, and nothing can be done, it's better for them. If it's because it's not wanted anymore, I have to walk out of the room. because not only would I be crying for the pet, I'd be knocking out the owner, wishing they were on the table instead.
2007-10-23 19:35:31 · answer #3 · answered by spiritwalker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh hunny that is nothing to be ashamed of and nothing you should change. I am the same way. I used to wish the same thing, but now I know that is me, that is how I am. I would now not change it for the world.
I cannot tell you how many owners feel more connected and more "at ease" when they see I am just as upset to witness their angel cross over into Rainbow Bridge. In a weird way, it is comforting to them. It is very hard to separate yourself from the situation and you can't help but put yourself in their shoes.
I always tell myself, the day I don't cry during a euthanasia is the day I know I should not be working in the field anymore. I want to care, I want to be involved, I want to feel. The day I get used to it or am unaffected is the day I give my notice.
2007-10-23 19:35:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 0⤋
Try talking to the manager or the presiding vet. They should be able to work with you and understand your feelings. If you aren't comfortable putting pets down, then ask to be put on routine shots and such instead of being with the unfortunate pets. Remember that it's natural, and that it's in the pets' best interest, but you still don't have to be there to see it!
Hope that helps!
2007-10-23 21:01:48 · answer #5 · answered by missknightride 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Oh, you do get used to it. Over time, it happens. You really have to in order to cope.
Sad but true. It is better and easier when the animal is really in need of euthansia. When it is for the best, it makes it easier. Not like in my job where you have to euthanize healthy animals because there is not enough homes for them.
2007-10-23 19:36:21 · answer #6 · answered by ARE YOUR NEWFS GELLIN'? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to become more clinical about it- having worked in the human health field and having seen people die, I know the best thing to do is detach yourself- concentrate on doing your job, not the life that is gone. Sounds callous, but allowing yourself to care and mourn everyone that comes through your doors and their path ends there- it would consume you.
2007-10-23 19:35:13 · answer #7 · answered by magy 6 · 5⤊ 0⤋
It's hard not to and almost impossible to get used to. Just squeeze someone's hand for a while afterward or clench your fist tightly as a distraction when you're done. It's hard to ignore though, and it's okay to cry....
2007-10-23 19:34:33 · answer #8 · answered by Judgerz 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How hard it must be for you! Try to focus on the fact that this is ending a life of pain for this animal, and what you are doing is a merciful act.
2007-10-23 19:38:35 · answer #9 · answered by Darla G 5 · 6⤊ 2⤋
I don't think I could do it.
2007-10-23 19:50:30 · answer #10 · answered by Shawn 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋