I'm not broke, I'm not alone or anything like that, but still I feel like I'm stuck in a rut and I just can't do anyhting about it.
I hate my job, underpaid & overworked...
my home life stinks because i live with my sister and her bf with her 2 kids from 2 previous marriages...so I'm usually babysitting them and picking them up from school while she's out with her bf...
my sex life stinks too...cuz my gf has recently added a few pounds on her and she said she doesnt feel like taking care of herself anymore...
there's gotta be something better out there for me, right? or am i just gonna die a loser?
2007-10-23 12:11:30 · 13 answers · asked by sean b 1 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
You sound like George Castanza....
2007-10-23 20:38:23 · answer #1 · answered by Its not me Its u 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dropped in to check out a "normal life" because I thought compared to my chaotic lifestyle it might be nice to dream about. But this doesn't sound like nice and normal....
1. Hate your job... so change it...
2. Home life stinks living with Sis.. get your own place...
3. A few pounds kill your sex life... how shallow you are and what a lack of imagination you have... look in the mirror... look at your life.... how are you inspiring her????
If you want something better, or just different ... change it up.... move to a new place... get a new job... find a new girl....
Or maybe you're suffering from depression.... making everything look bad because your perception is distorted.... talk to a doctor they have some excellent antidepressants that start working fast... Good luck!
2007-10-23 12:28:07 · answer #2 · answered by MARSHA G 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes I have. Where I work it is always hot, so I wear shorts even in the winter. When it's cold out, I don't feel like changing at work, so I just slip a pair of sweatpants over top of my cutoffs, and I'll slip them off while we're waiting at the time clock to punch in. Always seemed innocent enough to me. Well, I was told by one of the supervisory folk that I needed to slip off the sweats in the men's room, because one of my female co-workers was uncomfortable watching me take them off...even though she saw it almost everyday in the winter, and she had to know there were cutoff jeans underneath. She said it made her uncomfortable because it looked as if I was stripping. I don't consider behavior like that pathetic....it's more like neurotic. I would stay far, far away from that broad, and maybe put the shirt on just before you get anywhere she can see it. When women like that start whining, they can be a real pain in the @$$.
2016-05-25 06:39:15 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whoa... i feel much better after reading all that. no offense :p
well.... of course there's something better, if you don't like the things that are happening in your life, or feel like you just have no control over it, it's probably because you've allowed yourself to just go with the flow. You need to take a different approach, take charge. you could try to get a new job, an apartment, drop the gf (only if necessary), or something along those lines. this is your LIFE here, i may be wrong, but we only get one of those. stop feeling sorry for yourself. you could at least take baby steps at first....?
do you have any goals? anything you'd like to accomplish? work your way towards it and just do it. no one's going to take you by the hand and lead you to the end of the rainbow. wake up, that's not the way the world works.
you're alive, that's gotta mean something. yes? no? maybe?...
2007-10-23 12:30:21 · answer #4 · answered by Karina J 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Whether or not you "die a loser" is solely up to you. Don't expect a hand out in life or for someone else to come along and make it better. Want more? Make it happen. Take a moment to reflect on what you want life to be. Write it down or make a list if need be. There is always hope for everyone. Sometimes you have to say to yourself " I am not satisfied. "
I know it seems impossible sometimes to get out of the ruts and holes life seems to dig us.
Good luck.
2007-10-23 12:24:56 · answer #5 · answered by Epiphany 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that you will find that all material objects you, me and your girlfriend included, decay with time. Now I think that God is giving us a big hint here. We all have to strive to get out of here alive. The portal to this escape is by knowing at the deepest level of our being that God and each of have a shared consciousness, . By exploring this shared consciousness you can obtain the answer to all of your questions directly from God without the intervention of any other. This is discussed in John 14 and 1 Corinthians 2:10-16 and presented in detail by Saint and Doctor of the Church, Teresa of Avila's book "Interior Castle." If you read these things I think you will promise you see the path to an improved life.
2007-10-23 13:09:25 · answer #6 · answered by b_steeley 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would just get up back your bag and leave. Get a job doing something simple over seas and start fresh. If it cant get any worse than your situation now, might as well go. Your girlfriend won't care because she doesn't sound like she cares about herself so how could she care about you. and you sister needs to realize that those are her kids not yours and she should deal with it and you should go out and have fun. you need to get a backbone
2007-10-23 12:22:20 · answer #7 · answered by chuuk18 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes there is a better life out there for you, but it won't come to you. You have to make an effort to make it happen for yourself.
2007-10-23 12:25:30 · answer #8 · answered by R[̲̅ə̲̅٨̲̅٥̲̅٦̲̅]ution 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your girlfriend can always go on a diet, but loser is forever
2007-10-27 11:53:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life's long......alot of things are gonna happen (chill).
2007-10-23 12:20:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋