I had a c-section 5 weeks ago, and my husband hasn't wanted it, but I do. We have a very content son, he was on a good schedual right out of the womb, so it isn't so much about being tired. What do I do to get us back on track?
2007-10-23 12:10:09 · 9 answers · asked by The Hippy Momma 4 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Newborn & Baby
I would think that he's scared of hurting you. He's probably afraid that you haven't completely healed yet from the birth of your son. I would try reassuring him that everything is fine and that you're okay. Maybe try going to the Dr and have him tell your husband you are okay. If he still doesn't feel right about it and that he still may hurt you then I would wait a few more weeks until he is comfortable.
2007-10-23 12:16:51 · answer #1 · answered by LilyDragon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's probably overwhelmed get out of the house for fresh air. Go on a trip or vacation for week or so or even a weekend, put on your best clothes more that likely he'll want you then. Good luck
2007-10-23 19:23:46 · answer #2 · answered by Abbie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give the kid to his grandparents or someone for a night, plan a romantic dinner, buy some skimmpy lingerie, play some romantic music, and bang him to his hearts content.
2007-10-23 19:14:19 · answer #3 · answered by T C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
isn't it too early to be having sex? have you checked with your doc to make sure it is ok? if so, then try something romantic...take a night out just the two of you and then head home to a bath, candles, etc. to set the mood. it might not be very appealing to just jump in bed...
2007-10-23 19:16:28 · answer #4 · answered by blondie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just give him time. lol. I swear mens hormones also get screwy from pregnancy and birth.
Its probably afraid of something, hurting you, getting you pregnant, not doing something right. Talk to him about it.
2007-10-23 19:16:35 · answer #5 · answered by amosunknown 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
can you not try talking to him about it? ask him if something is bothering him im sure its nothing to do with you personally hes probably tired with the baby its hard work!
2007-10-23 19:17:05 · answer #6 · answered by morganna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes probably so exhausted with a new baby in the house
2007-10-23 19:14:02 · answer #7 · answered by badgermonk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I heard you are supposed to wait AT LEAST 6 weeks...
2007-10-23 19:44:47 · answer #8 · answered by xchasingsummerx 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take What's Yours, Make Him!
2007-10-23 19:17:59 · answer #9 · answered by citronge 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋